Bit of a girl Issue. Need the advice of the fine folk of NSC for a "Friend"

[L2MidgetGem B.H.A Seagull]

Personally couldn't date a 19 year old at 29- is she at University?

This Is why I am asking. Life changing actions and consequences are a couple things. As for Uni. She Is.

 

[chucky1973]

If being honest. That she does.

does she wear tight jeans and knee length boots? Has she a nice tony cottee??

 

[L2MidgetGem B.H.A Seagull]

does she wear tight jeans and knee length boots? Has she a nice tony cottee??

Nice try lol

 

[pipkin112]

If being honest. That she does.

There's your answer then, go for it.

 

[chucky1973]

Nice try lol

it was an important question, building up a picture of her to help me make a decision for you

 

[Goldstone Rapper]

If there's grass on the field, let's play.

 

[Kumquat]

You need to be careful if she is at Uni. If she's smart she may take a lot longer to emotionally cripple. I'd recommend bit by bit degrading the worth of whatever she is studying and what she wants to do as a career. Just laugh softly when she starts talking about it and then when she asks why you are laughing, just say "Nothing, really it's nothing" while laughing abit more like a ham actor in a very bad B-film. Over time she will start to doubt what she's doing and eventually you will have her eating out of your hand. Like a small goat.

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You need to be careful if she is at Uni. If she's smart she may take a lot longer to emotionally cripple. I'd recommend bit by bit degrading the worth of whatever she is studying and what she wants to do as a career. Just laugh softly when she starts talking about it and then when she asks why you are laughing, just say "Nothing, really it's nothing" while laughing abit more like a ham actor in a very bad B-film. Over time she will start to doubt what she's doing and eventually you will have her eating out of your hand. Like a small goat.

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In fact that advice is so important I appear to have said it twice.

 

[L2MidgetGem B.H.A Seagull]

it was an important question, building up a picture of her to help me make a decision for you

In that case. I will leave you with a pic of Lucy Pinder

 

[Goldstone Rapper]

In that case. I will leave you with a pic of Lucy Pinder
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Why not a picture of Tony Cottee as well?

 

[L2MidgetGem B.H.A Seagull]

Why not a picture of Tony Cottee as well?

 

[chucky1973]

In that case. I will leave you with a pic of Lucy Pinder
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where i was going was that she is still developing in both body and looks. If shes a stunner now and you dont and some one else does, will you live to regret it. Age dont mean anything if it works out. 29 is hardly old. But do it for the right reasons and not just a shag as that could damage her long term. if in doubt stay away, if you have genuine feelings, then go for it, but take it slowly.

 

[Goldstone Rapper]

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Looks like he's thinking of her as well.

 

[chucky1973]

Nice try lol

by the way Tony Cottee was slang for botty.............(just in case you never picked that up!!)

 

[User removed 4]

Right. My "Friend" has Got abit of a problem. Here goes.
"He" has know known this girl and her family for the longest time now. The other night she admitted to "him" that she had developed feelings for "Him". This Is where It gets kinda complicated. My "Friend" Is 29 and she Is 18. What does my "Friend" do In this situation? Go with "His" Instinct and go with her or would you be on to say she Is too young ect.

"He" Would be very greatfull for any advice or tips on how to deal with It.

Go for it , make sure you leave her with a face like a plasterers radio

 

[L2MidgetGem B.H.A Seagull]

where i was going was that she is still developing in both body and looks. If shes a stunner now and you dont and some one else does, will you live to regret it. Age dont mean anything if it works out. 29 is hardly old. But do it for the right reasons and not just a shag as that could damage her long term. if in doubt stay away, if you have genuine feelings, then go for it, but take it slowly.

There's alot to think about. "Don't want to go around ruining peoples lives. It's a decision not to be taken lightly.

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by the way Tony Cottee was slang for botty.............(just in case you never picked that up!!)

My slang is off these days tbh.

 

[User removed 4]

I would be more concerned about the emotional capacity of the girl. Sounds like a school girl crush to me - the sort of crush that will disappear as soon as she meets someone her own age that takes an interest in her.

sO HE NEEDS TO STRIKE WHILE THE IRONS HOT !!

 

[Goldstone Rapper]

There's alot to think about. "Don't want to go around ruining peoples lives. It's a decision not to be taken lightly.

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My slang is off these days tbh.

By the way, there's no need to catastrophise things. If relationships don't work out, that's a shame. But it doesn't follow that it will necessarily ruin people's lives. Relax.

 

[chucky1973]

sO HE NEEDS TO STRIKE WHILE THE IRONS HOT !!

what are you implying!!

 

[L2MidgetGem B.H.A Seagull]

By the way, there's no need to catastrophise things. If relationships don't work out, that's a shame. But it doesn't follow that it will necessarily ruin people's lives. Relax.

Didn't mean It like that.

 

[Goldstone Rapper]

Didn't mean It like that.

Sorry, I must have misread you. What did you mean, then? Thanks.