About a month a go we lost our beloved Golden Cocker Spaniel. He was only ten and a half (spaniels should live to about twelve) and one day we noticed his breathing wasn't quite right. We took him to the vets who said it was probably a chest infection and gave him antibiotics. It didn't clear up, so a few days later we took him back, they x-rayed him and said sadly he had lung cancer and what's more the lung cancer growths looked like secondaries. He was still walking around, wagging his tail and pulling on the lead to get out so they let us take him home to say goodbye. We arranged for them to come round the next day to do the deed at home as he HATED the vets; however it must have been a very aggressive cancer(s) as it was like he'd fallen of a cliff, he was ok at first, but his breathing got worse and worse through the night and eventually he died in my arms. It was utterly heartbreaking. My wife and I still anguish about whether he suffered and whether it would have been better to have had him put to sleep as soon as we had the diagnosis, but he looked so well less than 24 hours earlier!
It IS a real bereavement as any one who as ever lost a much-loved dog will confirm. We've still got his younger brother and a poodle, but the house is more than half-empty.
You need insurance, and a healthy dog.Dog owners...? Out of interest how do you find the financial side of dog ownership? I would like one (labrador type) but am worried it will be very expensive.
I'd really need to be able to do it without it making a massive impact on the family budget. Adding tins of food onto the Tesco order would be noticeable but manageable - how bad are the other costs? At the moment we have a cat and manage OK with his food and occasional trips to the vet.
Any advice/comments welcome.
Thanks, yeah I've had better days, well better weeks since then, and that's putting it mildly. I'm still not over it. I see from the picture you've got a cocker as well, we're probably biased but I think they are THE best dogs. Reading Hillian1's story (which I think he's posted before) made me realise that our dear old Sidney didn't really suffer in comparison.That's truly sad and well choked me up.
That is one of the saddest things I've ever read on here. Couldn't you have stayed with him?The last dog we had that died had to be put down. He was a perfectly healthy dog but some utter **** had put rat poison in bits of food and scattered them around the area. He got hold of some but we didn't know about the poison at the time (just assumed he'd picked up some dropped food.
It was only when he got a small cut on the inside of his lip that wouldn't clot and thus keep bleeding that we took him to the vets. A few blood tests later it was clear that his blood had been thinned by the poison to the point where he was only ever going to bleed to death and the kindest thing to do would be to put him down.
I was coping but then as we left the vet's room I made the stupid mistake of looking back to see the poor thing, confused as to why he was being left behind, try and follow me as the vet shut the door. That... yeah that broke me
That is one of the saddest things I've ever read on here. Couldn't you have stayed with him?
Agree with that.
I've always said that if you stick your dog and your missus in the boot of your car and leave them in it for an hour, I know which one of the two will the happier to see you when you open it.
Harry has seen off 4 relationships in his time but he has been there 24/7, 365. He has given me more love and support than any Woman I have ever met for sure. He cannot stand not to be my side. Even wants to come into the toilet to be with me when I have a crap LOL ! He is in it for the long haul. Being single at the moment with no kids, Harry is my life and when he goes I will be a 1000 piece jigsaw almost impossible to put together. Not sure how I am going to cope with the inevitable. He is not well with a swollen pad which may be a cancerous tumour. On all sorts of drugs now. All I can do is hope and pray.
people who don't have dogs will never understand the companionship they can give you.He has given me more love and support than any Woman I have ever met for sure. He cannot stand not to be my side. Even wants to come into the toilet to be with me when I have a crap LOL ! He is in it for the long haul. Being single at the moment with no kids, Harry is my life and when he goes I will be a 1000 piece jigsaw almost impossible to put together. Not sure how I am going to cope with the inevitable. He is not well with a swollen pad which may be a cancerous tumour. On all sorts of drugs now. All I can do is hope and pray.