NSC pearls of wisdom needed
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The Large One
Who's Next?
If you trust her, that's fine.
The more important point is, does she trust him?
The more important point is, does she trust him?
Barnet Seagull
Luxury Player
Just feed her a couple of lines.
"my husbands quite happy for me to come out for dinner with you"
"he's quite keen on getting someone else involved in our sex life since Mike went overseas..."
"my husbands quite happy for me to come out for dinner with you"
"he's quite keen on getting someone else involved in our sex life since Mike went overseas..."
The Large One
Who's Next?
Too many alarm bells.
I feel a 'chaperone' is in order - the boss maybe. Could he not have invited his 'partner' (assuming he has one) and you? Could this not have been a lunch date? If appeasement is required, perhaps she could delay it for, say, a couple of months (because she is 'very busy', 'prior commitments' etc) until she knows him better.
My point is - if she is asking you about it, it sounds as though she does not thoroughly trust him.
I feel a 'chaperone' is in order - the boss maybe. Could he not have invited his 'partner' (assuming he has one) and you? Could this not have been a lunch date? If appeasement is required, perhaps she could delay it for, say, a couple of months (because she is 'very busy', 'prior commitments' etc) until she knows him better.
My point is - if she is asking you about it, it sounds as though she does not thoroughly trust him.
Meade's Ball
Well-known member
I'd just be honest. Tell her you feel uncomfortable with and that you know it's not the most rational thought in the world, but that you wouldn't want to stand in her way. Surely working it through together is the best option. She's either going to be able to help you trust the situation or she'll understand the strength of your feeling and work something out.
Keeping it in is the worst thing you can do as you grin agonisingly through your frustration.
Keeping it in is the worst thing you can do as you grin agonisingly through your frustration.
Saint Lennard
Prawn Sarnie Casual
What is the company policy on this sort of thing?
Remember if this is a business date then she is still bound by her terms and conditions (could be her excuse for not drinking) and may feel compromised if he gets a bit strong and she doesn't want to piss off a valuable customer.
Remember if this is a business date then she is still bound by her terms and conditions (could be her excuse for not drinking) and may feel compromised if he gets a bit strong and she doesn't want to piss off a valuable customer.
Stinky Kat
Tripping
Get her to take an office junior on the 'date' as an developmental opportunity for the junior?
Kev the Ape
New member
Trust her, If she loves you what i think she does then dont be nervous let her enjoy herself.
or if all else fails slit the Bastard throat.
or if all else fails slit the Bastard throat.
Lokki, given the nature of the trade you work in, why not fit her with a chastity belt, and a time delayed razor on her tongue?
Meade's Ball
Well-known member
I'd think about spraying her with fart gas just before she leaves. Bingo.
Unless he's a poo fetishist. Then you've just f***ed yourself right up.
Unless he's a poo fetishist. Then you've just f***ed yourself right up.
Hungry Joe
SINNEN
Meade's_Ball said:
The boy's on top form today.
Lokki 7
WSU
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Thank you all for your considered advice. When I started this thread I was very wound up, but now thanks to you lot of misfits the red mist has cleared and I won't be looking at a 10 stretch. I thought people would take the piss to be honest but there are alot of very interesting posts here which has given me much food for thought, and a few laughs so thanks again everyone who took the effort to reply. (The fart gas may just work.)
I will post an update tomorrow after talking with the missus tonight.
I will post an update tomorrow after talking with the missus tonight.
The Large One
Who's Next?
So we won't have to get Knacker of the Yard involved after all?
Easy!!
Just take your mother or sister for a meal at the same place, same time so you can spy on them both.
Get an old newspaper and cut to holes in which you can look through. You'll never get spotted!
Then you can start worrying about what your daughter gets up to at college! (JOKE - Dont kill me!)
Just take your mother or sister for a meal at the same place, same time so you can spy on them both.
Get an old newspaper and cut to holes in which you can look through. You'll never get spotted!
Then you can start worrying about what your daughter gets up to at college! (JOKE - Dont kill me!)
Hungry Joe
SINNEN
Biscuit said:
Please tell me you've never actually tried this Biscuit
Hungry Joe
SINNEN
Biscuit said:Enjoy you meal out last week? What was the name of that blonde you were with?
Yes thank you, although the Lamb was a little too pink for my liking and the blonde was called Graham.
Easy 10
Brain dead MUG SHEEP
Just approach it with your partner in a calm, sensible manner, like I would. Something along the lines of:
"Look love, we both know you'll be making the giant double-backed sweaty beast before the irish coffee and mints turn up. Just make sure you get a hefty commission out of it and we'll leave it at that".
If you need any further relationship advice, I'll be spending the night alone on NSC, as usual.
"Look love, we both know you'll be making the giant double-backed sweaty beast before the irish coffee and mints turn up. Just make sure you get a hefty commission out of it and we'll leave it at that".
If you need any further relationship advice, I'll be spending the night alone on NSC, as usual.
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