ROSM
Well-known member
You would be surprised at how many parents, many in very good jobs such as police,.fire service, or financial services, will play the system to avoid their responsibilities.
I know of one person who left his partner and 2 kids (when he wasn't being violent towards her) and refused to pay anything toward the house and threw all his spare income into a pension to avoid the CSA. His colleagues in one of the blue light services found out basically ostracised him (especially as he was using stories about covering for his colleagues shifts to hide his affair). He then walked straight into another blue light service due to friends with funny handshakes.
He may now be paying something but the mother was left very short for many many years and is paying the mortgage alone on a house that he still had a beneficial stake in and wants his payout when they hit 18.
I'm sure she has had benefits and wider family support to help but these are professional people, it's not all Council estates and feral kids.
I know of one person who left his partner and 2 kids (when he wasn't being violent towards her) and refused to pay anything toward the house and threw all his spare income into a pension to avoid the CSA. His colleagues in one of the blue light services found out basically ostracised him (especially as he was using stories about covering for his colleagues shifts to hide his affair). He then walked straight into another blue light service due to friends with funny handshakes.
He may now be paying something but the mother was left very short for many many years and is paying the mortgage alone on a house that he still had a beneficial stake in and wants his payout when they hit 18.
I'm sure she has had benefits and wider family support to help but these are professional people, it's not all Council estates and feral kids.