You're missing my point entirely, Q.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with banter or pisstake, Q. My closest mates and I (many of whom are people I know originally through football) absolutely destroy each other, Q.
What I was suggesting, Q, was that anything that is seen as a sign of intelligence is most quickly and brutally jumped on, in the context of a football dressing room, Q.
My mates and I rip the piss out of each mercilessly, Q, but it is rarely for the "crime" of saying something "intelligent". This matey banter exists across all friendship groups and class systems, but the nature of banter is different, Q.
And in my experience the banter - Q - in football changing rooms is generally directed more at the "intelligent" ones/intelligent remarks. Hence, my suggestion that footballers are - or at least seem to want to be - well, a bit thick, Q.
Q.
You're missing my point entirely, Q.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with banter or pisstake, Q. My closest mates and I (many of whom are people I know originally through football) absolutely destroy each other, Q.
What I was suggesting, Q, was that anything that is seen as a sign of intelligence is most quickly and brutally jumped on, in the context of a football dressing room, Q.
My mates and I rip the piss out of each mercilessly, Q, but it is rarely for the "crime" of saying something "intelligent". This matey banter exists across all friendship groups and class systems, but the nature of banter is different, Q.
And in my experience the banter - Q - in football changing rooms is generally directed more at the "intelligent" ones/intelligent remarks. Hence, my suggestion that footballers are - or at least seem to want to be - well, a bit thick, Q.
Q.
I don't know about homophobia, but the dialogue in the new Bond film doesn't look that gripping.
I don't know about homophobia, but the dialogue in the new Bond film doesn't look that gripping.
Stop stressing about it all. It's just the way of the world. Women now have the vote, child labour is outlawed, no-one does jokes about thick Irishmen anymore and nowadays people scratch their heads and ask "did people really find comments about "nig-nogs/pakis" acceptable 30 years ago?"
In 30 years they will be saying the same about homophobic comments like this one that Lee Steele made. Society is evolving and it looks like you are going to be left behind, no doubt left to moan about the 'PC brigade' and the good old days when you could call a black bloke 'a spade' (as long as you did it with a smile to let him know you were just joshing with him.)
This is EXACTLY the point. Players don't use racist language or call the black players 'darkie' in dressing rooms (as far as I know). It's no longer acceptable. One day the same will be true of homophobia. This is a GOOD THING. Unfortunately, while attitudes change and evolve there will be a few high-profile casualties.
Take it for what it was, a joke, hardly malicious
What about gingers?
Indeed. Even as recently as 5 years ago, a comment like Lee Steele's would have been seen as fairly commonplace even if totally unfunny to anyone with a brain. Nowadays it just looks retarded.The question is:- At what point should football clubs take a stand against homophobia in their ranks?
I guess the answer is that, finally, they are starting to do something.
Stainless isn't the first person associated with the Albion to express homophobic sentiments.
I'm a gay man.
Would you smash it?