Eh? A bottle of wine a night is 5000 calories a week and probably a knackered liver.
Stopping drinking was easy when I was determined to stop. I had the same experience with smoking years ago...you can only stop when you really want to.The time as to be right.
Good people of NSC,
I have a "Friend" who is a triffle worried about his drinking. "He" is so bored with his life that drinking every night has become the normal thing to do, a way of numbing the, well Normal.
This "Friend" is mid fourties, overweight, f***ed achillies tendon and smokes heavily.
Any advice?
If you had two glasses of red wine with a meal every evening, you would be consuming around 40 units a week, but instead of causing your body damage you'll be getting health benefits.
Of course it's not my "Friend" hence the reason I put Friend in " "
Tried to give it up, can't. Asked for advice on here knowing there would be others.
I think that you have made a big step forward in admitting to the problem. As many others have said, now go and get proper help not from NSC (unless there are some professionals on here) your Doctor should be first stop.
Then you need to prioritise. I don't believe it's really possible to stop smoking & drinking at the same time. You could start by cutting down and taking some exercise, you will feel the benefits from this quite quickly,which is a good motivator.
Good luck.
(I stopped smoking in July last year and found this helpful: iCoach but each to their own)
I stopped smoking in July last year and found this very helpful but each to their own
.Step 1 done then.
Liver function test booked, scary shit.
Regards
Step 1 done then.
Doctors yesterday and told him how much I was drinking, also that I think it is becoming (or has become) a problem.
I'm not an alcoholic or alcohol dependent apparently (which is nice to know) as I go all day at work without thinking about a drink until I finish.
Liver function test booked, scary shit.
Just one pint last night as opposed to five, supplemented with two litres of Blueberry juice, heartburn central. I did open a can at home but after one swig poured it down the sink.
A question for anyone who is the same, it appears to me that it's the thought of not having a drink that scares me more than actually not having one (well only one pint) is this the same and how long will it last?
Regards
Step 1 done then.
Doctors yesterday and told him how much I was drinking, also that I think it is becoming (or has become) a problem.
I'm not an alcoholic or alcohol dependent apparently (which is nice to know) as I go all day at work without thinking about a drink until I finish.
Liver function test booked, scary shit.
Just one pint last night as opposed to five, supplemented with two litres of Blueberry juice, heartburn central. I did open a can at home but after one swig poured it down the sink.
A question for anyone who is the same, it appears to me that it's the thought of not having a drink that scares me more than actually not having one (well only one pint) is this the same and how long will it last?
Regards
Yep.
Problem?
Unfortunately this is just complete and utter guff. while there are health benefits to red wine, they are rapidly outweighed by the detrimental effects of alcohol. Sadly for us all the optimum amount of alcohol to drink is 1 unit of red wine a week - in other words barely enough to get a decent taste each day. Thanks science.
I have huge respect for you Fur Cough in addressing your problems and your demons. That takes a real Man. Good luck in reducing your alcohol intake to at least manageable levels.