Whoa didn't see that coming.

[Titus]

These men have been gay all their lives...they've just been in denial and fighting it. A lot of men don't want to be gay, they want to be straight. Eventually, the ' chore ' of making love to their wives and the pretence gets to them. They can't fight their dreams, fantasies and desires any longer. I believe that a lot of men ( and women ) wait until their children are mature enough to be able to cope with a parent ' coming out '
I 've known two young men, who I and others have suspected of being gay. Both, I believe, have been in denial and fighting it. Both have very ' macho ' fathers and I think this factor contributes to their suppression of feelings. Both have issues and have had treatment for depression. To date, neither has come out and I honestly believe they will continue to fight it, all the time their fathers are alive. It is sad when men can't live their lives naturally for fear of parental scorn/disdain/shock etc.
Good luck to anyone who ' comes out ' particularly later in life. They know they are running the risk of upsetting long standing relationships and losing some family contacts. I don't envy them.

I'm sorry but you appear to be on the wrong message-board. There's no place on this one for people that talk sense and use logic. Allow me to show you out.

 

[jackanada]

I'm sorry but you appear to be on the wrong message-board. There's no place on this one for people that talk sense and use logic. Allow me to show you out.

Oh don't be mean. I nearly posted something similar but realised my mistake in time and went for something shallow instead.

Anyhow, to the OP: Ignoring the different sex part- is the new partner hotter than the previous incumbent?

 

[Jesus Gul]

If I liked cock I'd probably go for it.

How do you know you don't?

'Don't knock it till you tried it' as one homosexual colleague once said to me before commenting that I had child-bearing hips.

 

[Hyperion]

I know of three divorces where the bloke left his wife for another man. None of them lived in Brighton before our pals up the M23 cotton onto this thread.

Yep it's a larger number than people maybe think it is. I know someone that has been in that scenario for years and years. I am the only one(i think) that actually knows. Bizarre situation to get into though be it their fault or not

 

[marshy68]

Is this another thinly veiled "Duke's Mound" thread?

Dont tell chris001.... i feel a letter or a strongly worded e mail coming on....

 

[Chris001]

Had a beer today with a close mate, known him for 20+ years. He tells me he's been having an affair and is in a bit of a state. Opened up to me with a bit of a cry for help.

Be honest I tells him, your family don't deserve to be messed around etc etc. 10 minutes after he's got himself together he calls a guy over and introduces me.

Now I am one for each to their own and good luck to you etc but when you think you know someone as well I as I know him.

Knocked me for 6. And no he doesn't read NSC before I get slated, he's not a footy guy but an egg chaser.

Good luck to them that's what I say, you've got to hold onto love wherever it comes from.

 

[Chris001]

Dont tell chris001.... i feel a letter or a strongly worded e mail coming on....

Not surprised to see you in here marshy, especially when I realized the content of this message.

Why don't you just come out?

 

[Arthritic Toe]

I was similarly somewhat surprised when my mate Martin announced that as of Monday, he would be becoming Martina.

 

[Mo Gosfield]

I was similarly somewhat surprised when my mate Martin announced that as of Monday, he would be becoming Martina.

My mate Les has just done the same thing.

 

[marshy68]

Not surprised to see you in here marshy, especially when I realized the content of this message.

Why don't you just come out?

lol you really are a plum.

 

[John Bumlick]

lol you really are a plumb.

plumb
n.
1. A weight on the end of a line, used to determine water depth.
2. A weight on the end of a line, used especially by masons and carpenters to establish a true vertical.

 

[marshy68]

plumb
n.
1. A weight on the end of a line, used to determine water depth.
2. A weight on the end of a line, used especially by masons and carpenters to establish a true vertical.

opps i really am a plum thanks for taking the time with the definitions

 

[Jim Van Winkle]

Had a beer today with a close mate, known him for 20+ years. He tells me he's been having an affair and is in a bit of a state. Opened up to me with a bit of a cry for help.

Be honest I tells him, your family don't deserve to be messed around etc etc. 10 minutes after he's got himself together he calls a guy over and introduces me.

Now I am one for each to their own and good luck to you etc but when you think you know someone as well I as I know him.

Knocked me for 6. And no he doesn't read NSC before I get slated, he's not a footy guy but an egg chaser.

Should have known when he asked to meet up at the Blue Oyster Bar. Also sounds like you're a bit jealous, it's OK we all know you wanted it to be you he announced his love for. :safeway:

 

[jackanada]

How do you know you don't?

'Don't knock it till you tried it' as one homosexual colleague once said to me before commenting that I had child-bearing hips.

Many of my gay friends have said the same thing. So I guess I lied. I'm very fond of my cock and we've had done great times together. Further I appreciate a decent rim job and a prostate massage. Just don't fancy any men (becks and Vicente excepted) but really want to f*** an inordinate number of women senseless.

 

[Jesus Gul]

Just don't fancy any men (becks and Vicente excepted)

How about big rugged Gordon Greer?

 

[Chris001]

opps i really am a plum thanks for taking the time with the definitions

You like plums

 

[jackanada]

How about big rugged Gordon Greer?

Not pretty enough for me, but I can imagine some twinks wanting him to kick their back doors in.

 

[Triggaaar]

Ernest ... over to you.

Don't feel you need to leave it to Ernest, get in there.