What should i do?

[Goring Gull]

Bit of a dilema i'm afraid.

I'm engaged and my fiancee and i have a 2 year old litlle boy. Perfectly happy.

This week have a lass up here from Brighton working here for teh week. According to my colleagues she's been giving me the eye the first couple of days. Got chatting to her yesterday and today and it's her last day up here before she goes back down south tommorrow. She has asked if i want to go for a drink or two in Leeds tonight and show her the sights.

She pretty tasty girl mid twenties seems pretty keen so if i was single would jump at the chance.

I know full well that i shouldn't go, temptation and all that despite my colleagues encouragement. I two minds what to do?

Half of it is knowing i could, not the actual getting up to anything just that feeling of well i could but i better not.

So should i -

1) Make up some tale to the missus about a drink with the lads and go anyway see what happens?

2) Just go home after work and forget about it, be happy about the interest.

3) Go for it full throttle and just hope i don't get found out even though i'm not that bothered but have the desire to find out exactly what i could be on for?

 

[CHAPPERS]

2

 

[¡Cereal Killer!]

Go on you know you want to, your missus wont find out.

if not I will do it

 

[Barrel of Fun]

2

Seconded.

If you need NSC to tell you.....

 

[brighton_girl87]

2

 

[Man of Harveys]

Everyone will say "be good". Everyone LIES.

 

[DIFFBROOK]

Its gotta be 2! Anything else and you are playing with fire

Just think if it were the other way around and your fiance strayed. I suspect also that other men do give her the come on, but she stays loyal to you.

Also think about your son. Losing your fiance maybe one thing, but would you really be prepared to lose your son if it all goes wrong.

Also, do you really want to get married?

 

[Kylies Stunt Arse]

As it's obvious that you can't just go out for a drink with her, be honest with your other half and not be thinking constantly about whether or not this bird would let you f*** her means 2.

 

[seagully]

gotta be 2

 

[John Dorian]

wheres the option for "pass her onto rodders"...disapointed goring gull, but if your happy with ur missus, just go home safe in the knowledge that if everything ever falls apart with the current missus, u got the interest from other bints....

 

[Kylies Stunt Arse]

Everyone will say "be good". Everyone LIES.

So what would YOU do?

 

[Scoffers]

Gotta be 2, so I fully expect you to do 3

 

[hans kraay fan club]

Bit of a dilema i'm afraid.

I'm engaged and my fiancee and i have a 2 year old litlle boy. Perfectly happy.

This week have a lass up here from Brighton working here for teh week. According to my colleagues she's been giving me the eye the first couple of days. Got chatting to her yesterday and today and it's her last day up here before she goes back down south tommorrow. She has asked if i want to go for a drink or two in Leeds tonight and show her the sights.

She pretty tasty girl mid twenties seems pretty keen so if i was single would jump at the chance.

I know full well that i shouldn't go, temptation and all that despite my colleagues encouragement. I two minds what to do?

Half of it is knowing i could, not the actual getting up to anything just that feeling of well i could but i better not.

So should i -

1) Make up some tale to the missus about a drink with the lads and go anyway see what happens?

2) Just go home after work and forget about it, be happy about the interest.

3) Go for it full throttle and just hope i don't get found out even though i'm not that bothered but have the desire to find out exactly what i could be on for?

4) Meet up with her, and bring your missus along too. You can have a nice evening, a few drinks, make all the other blokes jealous by having two girls on your arm, and there's always that tiny possibility that you might get very, very lucky!!!

 

[Man of Harveys]

So what would YOU do?

It's a good question but I can't answer it, because I'm not engaged and don't have a little boy, both of which make a difference to just have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, I'd say. Definitely not 3.

 

[BHA Jordan]

Got to be 2 mate, was faced with a similar scenario myself a while back, and at the end of the day you will always get found out, as you'll tell someone and then you get the chinese whispers effect, and it will get back to her.

Play safe

 

[Goring Gull]

I know 2 is the best option and to be honest until the lads here started winding me up it wouldn't have crossed my mind, Hence probably the appeal to her in the fact i haven'yt even been trying it wouldn't have happened if was single but hey that's life. I'll set one of them up instead.

but as the locals say up here "she'd take ducks off water"... these northerners are funny fcukers.

 

[BHA Jordan]

If she's really that nice, just shut ya eyes and think ya giving her one while the missus is bent over the bed.

Works for me

 

[Commander]

Re: Re: What should i do?

4) Meet up with her, and bring your missus along too. You can have a nice evening, a few drinks, make all the other blokes jealous by having two girls on your arm, and there's always that tiny possibility that you might get very, very lucky!!!

That is the best option.

 

[Goring Gull]

Got to be 2 mate, was faced with a similar scenario myself a while back, and at the end of the day you will always get found out, as you'll tell someone and then you get the chinese whispers effect, and it will get back to her.

Play safe

Also why do women never believe you but will take something as red from an aquaintance?

 

[Lokki 7]

Where is Tubby Mondays when you need him?