Perhaps she has a nice personality, which we fellows should learn to focus on a bit more.
Having said that, most good-looking birds would then have to take a uni course, visit the Dalai Lama, read half the Smithsonian, practise religion daily, and practically become born-again to become competitive with the more introspective, shy or homely types.
There's a tune that starts; "if you want to be happy for the rest of your life....... "