If 'Yes', should I re-visit the Goldstone?

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portlock seagull

Well-known member
Jul 28, 2003
19,070
Sure I'm not alone, but ever since that final day I've never been back to the Goldstone. I just wanted to leave memories as they were until I knew we were back in Brighton and Hove for good. It's been a lot longer than I thought but it's become a personal superstition. And also becoming a serious pain in the arse given a best mate lives round the corner and I have to close my eyes in his kitchen and pull up / let the wife drive the last 100 yards so I don't see the old NE terrace. I welled up last Saturday as I saw the church at the bottom of Newtown/ Fonthill Roads round the back of the South Stand and my wife told me to stop living in the past. But it's our past. Not hers. I kinda feel that a final decision is the exocism I've been waiting for and I can finally move forward.

Do you think I should let ghosts rest after tomorrow? Is anyone else in the same boat as me?
 




Yorkie

Sussex born and bred
Jul 5, 2003
32,367
dahn sarf
Yes, get it out of your system.

We parked our car by Hove Park when we went on the Seagulls Special to Cardiff. There were 5 of us standing looking for a minute or so before we got on the train. It somehow got us into the right mood for the day, as if we knew something special was going to happen.
 


Superphil

Dismember
Jul 7, 2003
25,926
In a pile of football shirts
When the start laying the foundations at Falmer, I might consider driving past the Goldstone, but I doubt if I'll ever go onto the site.
 


fosters headband

Well-known member
Aug 15, 2003
5,168
Brighton
I have never put a foot on the land again and never will until we run out for the first game in our own ground.
I have even driven the wife to DFS Tunbridge Wells to keep up my promise to myself.
The wife thinks I am mad:D
 


Lady Bracknell

Handbag at Dawn
Jul 5, 2003
4,514
The Metropolis
I still won't go near the Goldstone. In fact I won't even look at what is there now! So I shan't be doing differently even if we get a "Yes" tomorrow. I've not set eyes on the site since walking away back to Hove Station after the last game and want to remember it as it was.
 




British Bulldog

The great escape
Feb 6, 2006
10,993
I've been there many times, Shopped in all the shops and eaten in Burger King! It was a bit of a downer the first time I went there but you soon get used to it.
 




I still won't go near the Goldstone. In fact I won't even look at what is there now! So I shan't be doing differently even if we get a "Yes" tomorrow. I've not set eyes on the site since walking away back to Hove Station after the last game and want to remember it as it was.

I will go nowhere near it. If it means a 10 mile detour, then detour it is, sod the greens.
 






SW17

New member
Jan 2, 2007
177
South London
You'll be tempting fate. Weren't you saying the other week that with all the toing and froing that you'll never be sure when to finally celebrate??? Give it a year or three mate!!!!!
 


dougdeep

New member
May 9, 2004
37,732
SUNNY SEAFORD
I've been there many times, Shopped in all the shops and eaten in Burger King! It was a bit of a downer the first time I went there but you soon get used to it.

But we don't want to get used to it.
 




bristolseagull

Well-known member
Jul 5, 2003
5,554
Lindfield
I have never put a foot on the land again and never will until we run out for the first game in our own ground.
I have even driven the wife to DFS Tunbridge Wells to keep up my promise to myself.
The wife thinks I am mad:D






f***ing hell,

get over it mate...............
 


JJ McClure

Go Jags
Jul 7, 2003
11,302
Hassocks
Once Falmer is real thing and not just a picture, then I might just might go back. Not that there is a lot to tempt me there in the first place. Sofa shop, got one thanks, fast food, no ta, D D Dixons, piss right off, and Toys a f***ing rus.
 


Freddie Goodwin.

Well-known member
Mar 31, 2007
7,186
Brighton
I'm the same as most of the above.
There was once talk of a statue at the Goldstone. If/when, we get our new stadium (that means when it's actually built), I think there should be a symbolic pilgramage from the Goldstone to falmer, via Withdean.

I would then be happy for a fitting monumnet at the Goldstone to commemorate the many years and the many thousands of Sussex men, woman & children who will forever hold that place as somehwere special.
 






beorhthelm

A. Virgo, Football Genius
Jul 21, 2003
36,499
nope, never going to set foot there. unless its for an impromtu game of footy on the newly green painted tarmac ;)
 


Easy 10

Brain dead MUG SHEEP
Jul 5, 2003
62,795
Location Location
Sure I'm not alone, but ever since that final day I've never been back to the Goldstone. I just wanted to leave memories as they were until I knew we were back in Brighton and Hove for good. It's been a lot longer than I thought but it's become a personal superstition. And also becoming a serious pain in the arse given a best mate lives round the corner and I have to close my eyes in his kitchen and pull up / let the wife drive the last 100 yards so I don't see the old NE terrace. I welled up last Saturday as I saw the church at the bottom of Newtown/ Fonthill Roads round the back of the South Stand and my wife told me to stop living in the past. But it's our past. Not hers. I kinda feel that a final decision is the exocism I've been waiting for and I can finally move forward.

Do you think I should let ghosts rest after tomorrow? Is anyone else in the same boat as me?
If you do go, can you get me a bog-standard scart lead and an "all in one" remote control (no more than £20) from Comets please.

Ta.
 


BensGrandad

New member
Jul 13, 2003
72,015
Haywards Heath
I still won't go near the Goldstone. In fact I won't even look at what is there now! So I shan't be doing differently even if we get a "Yes" tomorrow. I've not set eyes on the site since walking away back to Hove Station after the last game and want to remember it as it was.

I am the same and have decreed that the next time I go past there will be in one of Harty's Limos and me being in a box for my final journey.
 




Freddie Goodwin.

Well-known member
Mar 31, 2007
7,186
Brighton
Why is it that no statue has ever been placed at the Goldstone?


I think it was because Albion supporters could not bear to go & visit a statue to remind them of something lost, it'd be like rubbing your nose in it.

Once we have Falmer we will have a home again.

:falmerspi
 


Wienergull

Geht in Ordnung
Jul 10, 2003
473
Berlin Mitte
Have driven past many times, but have never set foot on the hallowed ground since and don't think I ever will, regardless of the Falmer verdict.
 


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