Can Men and Women be "JUST" friends??

[junior]

Anyone else ever suffered from this problem?

 

[dougdeep]

Of course they can. I have more women friends than men ones.

 

[turienzo's lovechild]

i have some female friends, but none that i'd never consider shagging

 

[Simon Morgan]

so does friend mean someone you get on with and havent considered shagging. i think the borderline is quite vague these days

 

[turienzo's lovechild]

so does friend mean someone you get on with and havent considered shagging. i think the borderline is quite vague these days

no- all my female friends i HAVE considered shagging

 

[Simon Morgan]

but isnt that beyond "just friends"

 

[fatboy]

I don't think you can have friends of the opposite sex without at least one party in the friendship having at some point considered shagging the other one.

But, Junior, most of the girls you go after probably aren't old enough to know what shagging is!!

 

[DTES]

I don't think you can have friends of the opposite sex without at least one party in the friendship having at some point considered shagging the other one.

Spot on. That's exactly the point - you only need one party stop it being just friendship. I have plenty of female friends who would be simply horrified by the idea of sleeping with me - doesn't stop me being up for the idea though...

 

[Starry]

Of course they can. One of my closest friends is male.

 

[Crazy Cornish Gal]

Nightmare scenario i find, i have male friends, but the only ones i never consider sleeping with are ones younger than me. Had good friendships ruined in the past because we 'crossed the line' and it's never the same again.

 

[HAMPSHIRE DAVE]

Depends how much you fancy your friend?
If she's "drop dead gorgeous" it's impossible.
Have been best mates with someone of the opposite sex for 20 years.
It would be like going out with my mother if we started dating.

 

[blueandwhitearmy]

yeah of course, a few I wouldn't say no to mind!

 

[Chesney Christ]

I have female friends who I have opendly admitted to fancying, but it doesn't cause problems.

One in particular who I fancy the f*** out of it, and who also happens to be a very close friend, knows I like her and is fine with it, and is still happy to flirt with me.

Mind you, if I'm around her too much it becomes quite difficult because God I like her.

Not sure what would happen if we "crossed the line". I think we'd still be able to go back to being friends.

 

[Safeway]

Of course, I've got loads of female friends.

I just don't tell them that I wank over them.

 

[Spicy]

I have men as mates but they are mates and you just don't get involved in sleeping with them.

 

[Crazy Cornish Gal]

I have men as mates but they are mates and you just don't get involved in sleeping with them.

No way, it ruins everything, you may think you can still be friends but it just never works as one person will always want more to happen than the other.

 

[Waterhall Wizard]

No way, it ruins everything, you may think you can still be friends but it just never works as one person will always want more to happen than the other.

So you mean say that I go Camborne, drink in bar, and she say my 'andsome she wanta shag me? Thats where I been going wrong.

 

[Yorkie]

Of course they can. One of my closest friends is male.

I agree and so is mine.

 

[Safeway]

No way, it ruins everything, you may think you can still be friends but it just never works

That's why I stick to wanking over them and hope I never say anything when drunk.

 

[Crazy Cornish Gal]

Yeh i think thats best