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Is this the best "if" and "buts" thread ever on NSC ?

Is this the best "if" and "buts" thread ever on NSC ?
I read a thing recently about subjectivity in decision-making that said something along the lines of those who see a good outcome only coming from the elimination of a negative rather than from maximising a positive tend to have less fulfilling experiences and less joy in life than those who maximise the positive. I'm trying to see football in that way now. Something perhaps about the focus being on creating opportunity in what's possible rather than reacting to events that are momentary, and recognising that being realistic means not allowing the bad stuff to disproportionately taint the good stuff...being overly negative is as bad, if not worse, than being overly-positive.I can think of few more depressing and futile ways to spend a morning than thinking about the minority of matches this season where we dropped a bollock, and catastrophizing about them.
Why not instead think about how you f***ed up previous relationships.
Let down your mates.
Embarrassed your family.
Blew a job interview.
Got sick.
Got old.
And eventually died.
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and.....exhaleI read a thing recently about subjectivity in decision-making that said something along the lines of those who see a good outcome only coming from the elimination of a negative rather than from maximising a positive tend to have less fulfilling experiences and less joy in life than those who maximise the positive. I'm trying to see football in that way now. Something perhaps about the focus being on creating opportunity in what's possible rather than reacting to events that are momentary, and recognising that being realistic means not allowing the bad stuff to disproportionately taint the good stuff...being overly negative is as bad, if not worse, than being overly-positive.
"If we hadn't played like we were wearing two left-footed clown shoes in the last 5 minutes against Wolves and Leicester we'd be top 6" being reframed as "we played great for 85 minutes and learned from that not to switch off thinking the games are done, and the season has been pretty decent since which bodes well for next".
I thought it was interesting anyway. (But obviously when we lose the next two games, Palace finish above us and Van Hecke joins Liverpool in the summer I reserve the right to be miserable about it ruining our next season before it's even begun.)
Well said. All the ifs and buts should be ignored. We should look back to the start of the season, and where we hoped to be now!Whether we get into Europe or not, finishing 8th is, I believe, a fantastic achievement given the upheaval last summer
Whatever happens over the next 10 days or so to see what happens, we shouldn’t lose sight of that
No, unfortunately. We must finish 8th to have any chance.So does 8th get Europe? I'm confused on the permutations. What outcomes can/cant give 8th placed team Europe?
Isn’t it obviousSo does 8th get Europe? I'm confused on the permutations. What outcomes can/cant give 8th placed team Europe?
Most of those are redundant now (and not totally accurate). It's basically
I watched the highlights of that game without knowing the score. I was bloody livid when Buonanotte slotted that away!it only just dawned on me that forest would only need to draw with Chelsea to be above them if Brighton’s buonnotte had not scored for Leics!