Such emotive language.
I wonder how you will feel in 10/20/30/40 years when attitudes are different again and people accuse you in such similar terms of being............(i.e having lived in a different time)
You cannot judge people of things in the past by contemporary standards.
If I came home with red weals that turn to bruises after being caned, my father would have been more concerned with what I had done to deserve it. Times have changed.
I don't think you get 'offended' by your relations being removed from Vienna to concentration camps, I think the emotions would be somewhat stronger, perhaps outrage or many more, but not 'offended'.