Likely Horton, My dad took me to the goldstone while i was a baby, however my first memories are of Richie Barker at Gillingham. However first manager I remember is Adams so 15 from him.
There are videos of him hitting the horn. People started hitting his car and trying to open the door, which after that he started to speed into the crowd.
Looking at the laws again, it may have actually been the correct decision.
A goalkeeper is considered to be in control of the ball with the hand(s) when:
the ball is between the hands or between the hand and any surface (e.g. ground, own body) or by touching it with any part of the hands or...
Nope, even before VAR red cards could be given, penalties can be brought back after the final whistle too (very rare). If a player handles it in the area then clears, but ref doesn't see, he can blow for ft. The linesman could flag for it, speak to the ref, then it can still be given.