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goldstone

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For the first time ever I am just not feeling the same enthusiasm for my beloved Brighton and Hove Albion as I have in the past.

Not sure that I can exactly put my finger on the reason why. It's probably a combination of a number of factors:
- It was always special to be supporting the underdog. The little team that could. The hard-done-by team with the crappy stadium. Now suddenly we're a big club with a big stadium and a Chairman with money.
- I certainly felt more connection with the team when sitting out in the elements at Withdean (and prior to that at the Goldstone) than I do in the upper reaches of the West Stand. Great stadium, great view of the game, but just not as close to the action.
- I really don't like the attempt to drum up an atmosphere before the games at the Amex by that guy with the microphone. All very plastic. Much preferred the guys we had on the PA at Withdean. They really seemed to be part of us the supporters. The new guy is more like a paid outsider.
- I am having trouble relating to the players this season. Maybe because I'm sitting too far away from the action. Maybe because we don't have a settled team and some of the new faces have hardly started a game even though we're more than a third of the way through the season.
- We don't seem to have the same characters in the team as in the past. Craig Noone is probably the only one who fits the bill. No players in the mold of Harty, FDM, Charlie, Chippie.
- And of course I'm frustrated with the recent string of results. I don't mind us losing when we've put in 100% effort as a team, but that just doesn't appear to be happening this season. We don't have the required level of passion on the pitch IMHO.
- Plus the lack of shots on goal is driving me mad. How can we go a whole game (on more than one occasion) with no shots on target? How can we possibly expect to win any games if we play like that?
- And finally I'm really really pissed off about us letting Murray go. I thought at the time it was a bad decision. Now I know it was a very very bad decision.

I'm sure my enthusiasm will return to its previous levels in due course. Maybe it's a transition thing.

Anyone else feeling the same way?
 








Cheeky Monkey

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Jul 17, 2003
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You absolute imbecile (if you don't mind me saying). You might want to re-invent yourself under a new user name and start afresh on NSC, either way, put the flak jacket on.

:falmer:
 








Tom Hark Preston Park

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Jul 6, 2003
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For the first time ever I am just not feeling the same enthusiasm for my beloved Brighton and Hove Albion as I have in the past.
...
- I certainly felt more connection with the team when sitting out in the elements at Withdean (and prior to that at the Goldstone) than I do in the upper reaches of the West Stand. Great stadium, great view of the game, but just not as close to the action.
...
- I am having trouble relating to the players this season. Maybe because I'm sitting too far away from the action. Maybe because we don't have a settled team and some of the new faces have hardly started a game even though we're more than a third of the way through the season.

Sounds like nothing a transfer to the North Stand couldn't cure. Worth a try shirley?

You're also probably like most of us and suffering from a f***ing stupid lack of Saturday afternoon games. Honestly, this season is so weirdly disjointed it doesn't even feel like a football season anymore. Little wonder people are experiencing a feeling of DISCONNECTION.
 


Thunder Bolt

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Oh for the good old days when we got beaten 1-0 by Mansfield, got soaked through to the skin or were beaten 5-1 by Stoke.
Agree with Tom Hark, ask for a transfer to the North stand where you can see the sweat on the players brows as they flog themselves to death playing for the Albion.
 




goldstone

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Was going to write something about putting it all into perspective by looking at where we are but i just can't be arsed!

It's nothing to do with where we are. It wouldn't make a difference if we were 8th or 20th. It's about the things I listed.
 


Uncle C

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goldstone

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Sounds like nothing a transfer to the North Stand couldn't cure. Worth a try shirley?

You're also probably like most of us and suffering from a f***ing stupid lack of Saturday afternoon games. Honestly, this season is so weirdly disjointed it doesn't even feel like a football season anymore. Little wonder people are experiencing a feeling of DISCONNECTION.

And that's another thing I should have mentioned. I like 3pm kick-offs on Saturdays. A no two week breaks for pointless internationals.
 




Cheeky Monkey

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Agree about the international breaks though. I've taken to following Di Canio's Swinedon Town to get me through those non-footballing weekends and very well he's got them playing too.
 








Chesney Christ

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Sep 3, 2003
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I long for the days of Mickey Adams getting us to endlessly hoof the ball in the vague direction of the opposition goal, whilst sat in the cold and rain in a shitty ground watching us continue to slide towards League Two.
 


goldstone

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How would you feel if we'd not lost at the weekend ?
Honest answer please.

The same. Saturday's defeat was not the reason. Just confirmation of what I was already feeling After the heady start to the season my level of enthusiasm has been heading south.

And probably for the first time ever after supporting the Albion since the late 50s.

It's not terminal, but I sincerely hope it's short term.
 




Tom Hark Preston Park

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Jul 6, 2003
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The same. Saturday's defeat was not the reason. Just confirmation of what I was already feeling After the heady start to the season my level of enthusiasm has been heading south.

And probably for the first time ever after supporting the Albion since the late 50s.

It's not terminal, but I sincerely hope it's short term.

Hang on in there mate, the best bits are still to come! :thumbsup:
 




bobby smith

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Jan 20, 2011
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For the first time ever I am just not feeling the same enthusiasm for my beloved Brighton and Hove Albion as I have in the past.

Not sure that I can exactly put my finger on the reason why. It's probably a combination of a number of factors:
- It was always special to be supporting the underdog. The little team that could. The hard-done-by team with the crappy stadium. Now suddenly we're a big club with a big stadium and a Chairman with money.
- I certainly felt more connection with the team when sitting out in the elements at Withdean (and prior to that at the Goldstone) than I do in the upper reaches of the West Stand. Great stadium, great view of the game, but just not as close to the action.
- I really don't like the attempt to drum up an atmosphere before the games at the Amex by that guy with the microphone. All very plastic. Much preferred the guys we had on the PA at Withdean. They really seemed to be part of us the supporters. The new guy is more like a paid outsider.
- I am having trouble relating to the players this season. Maybe because I'm sitting too far away from the action. Maybe because we don't have a settled team and some of the new faces have hardly started a game even though we're more than a third of the way through the season.
- We don't seem to have the same characters in the team as in the past. Craig Noone is probably the only one who fits the bill. No players in the mold of Harty, FDM, Charlie, Chippie.
- And of course I'm frustrated with the recent string of results. I don't mind us losing when we've put in 100% effort as a team, but that just doesn't appear to be happening this season. We don't have the required level of passion on the pitch IMHO.
- Plus the lack of shots on goal is driving me mad. How can we go a whole game (on more than one occasion) with no shots on target? How can we possibly expect to win any games if we play like that?
- And finally I'm really really pissed off about us letting Murray go. I thought at the time it was a bad decision. Now I know it was a very very bad decision.

I'm sure my enthusiasm will return to its previous levels in due course. Maybe it's a transition thing.

Anyone else feeling the same way?

I know exactly how you feel, coz i echo some of your sentiments, i personally feel that some of the "attachment" to the ALB has somehow dissapeared, i dont know why i feel like i do because i LUV the AMEX and having a drink or three b4 games, but i do feel its not our own club anymore. I remember a Boxing day at Barnet many years ago was freezing cold was cuddling my 2 sons 2 keep them warm wen HARTY scored the only goal, cherished memories ???
 




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