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what do women want?
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Northstander
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- Oct 13, 2003
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They want
1. Holidays
2. New clothes
3. A bigger and better house
4. 24 hr compliments on how beautiful they are
5. To be taken out for a nice meal (usually expensive, whilst saving to go on holiday and buy a new house)
1. Holidays
2. New clothes
3. A bigger and better house
4. 24 hr compliments on how beautiful they are
5. To be taken out for a nice meal (usually expensive, whilst saving to go on holiday and buy a new house)
Meade's Ball
Well-known member
They like being stared at. Oh, and followed.
Northstander
Well-known member
- Oct 13, 2003
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Meade's_Ball said:
Scary stuff
Dick Knights Mumm
Take me Home Falmer Road
zig-a-zig-ah..
Dick Knights Mumm
Take me Home Falmer Road
respect and consideration are a start.
Dick Knights Mumm
Take me Home Falmer Road
oh - and don't try too hard. Desperation is not an aphrodisiac.
Gary Nelson
New member
this was circulated to me this morning-honest!!HOW TO IMPRESS ANY WOMAN
I've learned a secret to impressing women that
I'm going to share with you in this newsletter.
It's a secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men
knows or will ever figure out on his own.
The REASON that most men will never figure out
this particular secret is that it's TOO OBVIOUS.
Let me explain...
I personally think that most men feel a very
powerful desire to IMPRESS women.
If you watch the way a man behaves when he's
talking to a woman he's just met or a woman that
he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.
Maybe you've been there yourself.
I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.
The feeling that you need to impress a woman
usually comes along with another feeling: DON'T
SCREW THIS UP.
Here are some of the signs that a guy is
feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's
talking to:
1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things
that will "impress" the woman.
2) He acts nervous and stilted during the
conversation... sometimes coming across as
"formal".
3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants
to hear.
4) If he says something that the woman doesn't
like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what
he said to suit the woman.
5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease
the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.
...in other words, when a guy is talking to a
woman that he "likes", he's usually on his "best
behavior", and he's trying to "put his best foot
forward".
To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVE
TO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY "LIKE".
And this drive to impress often makes them
act UNNATURAL.
There's your first hint, in fact...
THE SECRET
Remember at the beginning when I told you that
I was going to share a secret with you about how
to impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men will
figure out on their own?
Well, here it is:
STOP TRYING.
If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women,
and do the things I'm teaching you instead, women
will NATURALLY be "impressed" by you.
TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER.
So let's break this down...
WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD
What's wrong with trying to "impress" women,
anyway?
To start with, EVERYTHING.
When you intentionally try to impress a woman,
you send the following messages on a "subtle" level:
1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I
will try to "impress" you instead.
2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to just
act normal.
3) I don't have a lot of experience with attractive
women.
4) I'm insecure.
5) I don't know how to make women feel comfortable
with me.
Ouch.
But it's the truth.
Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying".
The conversation doesn't feel "normal", your
body language is strange, and you can't seem to
have a regular conversation.
Now of course, I've just described the way that
about 99.9999% of men act when they're first talking
to a woman that they "like".
Are you ready for a profound insight?
Here goes...
MOST MEN DO THIS WITH MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN MOST
OF THE TIME. IN OTHER WORDS, IT'S OLD NEWS. IT'S
BORING. IT'S PREDICTABLE. AND IT DOES NOT IMPRESS
AT ALL.
The bottom line is that trying to impress a
woman usually has the OPPOSITE effect.
It not only makes you look like a nervous guy
who can't make normal conversation... it also
bores the hell out of women.
WHAT TO DO INSTEAD
OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with a
beautiful woman you just met a few days before...
She asks you what you do for a living.
Should you answer with:
1) "Well, I'm an engineer for a software company
that makes sophisticated vector widget plotting
algorithms. I've been with them for three years,
and I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHM
MANAGER."
2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in
a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked
ass? That's my job."
...?
Well, it all depends on what your outcome is.
If you want to try and IMPRESS the girl with
your cool high-tech job, then #1 will work just
fine.
Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all,
and it will make you sound like a jackass who is
trying to sound cool.
If you want to ACTUALLY impress her, try #2.
Most men don't have the BALLS to say something
like this when a woman asks a "serious" question
like "What do you do?".
If you REALLY want to make a long-lasting
impression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING.
She'll say "No, really... what do you do?".
Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you ever
seen it when an actor needs a stunt ass? I mean
hey... someone's got to do it".
Now, I can't possibly go into all the reasons
why it's a HUGE MISTAKE to try to impress a woman,
or to feel like everything you say should be
"impressive".
There are MANY reasons for this.
MORE IMPORTANTLY, there are a few things you
can do that will INSTANTLY impress a woman...
and I mean REALLY impress her.
But these things aren't OBVIOUS.
The most IMPORTANT thing you can do to
IMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerful
emotional ATTRACTION for you.
This feeling will stay with her long after you
have left and gone home.
And it's the one thing that will make women
pursue YOU... and try to impress YOU.
What's the best way to do this?
1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.
2) Go download a copy of my online eBook "Double
Your Dating", and read it. It contains literally
DOZENS and dozens of great techniques for you to
use that will make women feel ATTRACTION for you.
And if you've alread read my eBook, and you're
ready to take your success to an entirely new
level, then you must get yourself a copy of my
"Advanced Dating Techniques" CD/DVD Program.
This is the most complete, detailed, step-by-
step system available for becoming the kind of
man that women want to be with.
This program is GUARANTEED 100% by me to take
you to the next level and beyond with women.
Check out the free samples of both my eBook
and my Advanced Dating Techniques Program...
The eBook is here:
http://www.doubleyourdatingbook.com/emd24/
The Advanced Series is here:
http://www.doubleyourdatingbook.com/emd24/advancedseries/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
Load of bollocks really.
I've learned a secret to impressing women that
I'm going to share with you in this newsletter.
It's a secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men
knows or will ever figure out on his own.
The REASON that most men will never figure out
this particular secret is that it's TOO OBVIOUS.
Let me explain...
I personally think that most men feel a very
powerful desire to IMPRESS women.
If you watch the way a man behaves when he's
talking to a woman he's just met or a woman that
he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.
Maybe you've been there yourself.
I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.
The feeling that you need to impress a woman
usually comes along with another feeling: DON'T
SCREW THIS UP.
Here are some of the signs that a guy is
feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's
talking to:
1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things
that will "impress" the woman.
2) He acts nervous and stilted during the
conversation... sometimes coming across as
"formal".
3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants
to hear.
4) If he says something that the woman doesn't
like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what
he said to suit the woman.
5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease
the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.
...in other words, when a guy is talking to a
woman that he "likes", he's usually on his "best
behavior", and he's trying to "put his best foot
forward".
To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVE
TO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY "LIKE".
And this drive to impress often makes them
act UNNATURAL.
There's your first hint, in fact...
THE SECRET
Remember at the beginning when I told you that
I was going to share a secret with you about how
to impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men will
figure out on their own?
Well, here it is:
STOP TRYING.
If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women,
and do the things I'm teaching you instead, women
will NATURALLY be "impressed" by you.
TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER.
So let's break this down...
WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD
What's wrong with trying to "impress" women,
anyway?
To start with, EVERYTHING.
When you intentionally try to impress a woman,
you send the following messages on a "subtle" level:
1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I
will try to "impress" you instead.
2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to just
act normal.
3) I don't have a lot of experience with attractive
women.
4) I'm insecure.
5) I don't know how to make women feel comfortable
with me.
Ouch.
But it's the truth.
Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying".
The conversation doesn't feel "normal", your
body language is strange, and you can't seem to
have a regular conversation.
Now of course, I've just described the way that
about 99.9999% of men act when they're first talking
to a woman that they "like".
Are you ready for a profound insight?
Here goes...
MOST MEN DO THIS WITH MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN MOST
OF THE TIME. IN OTHER WORDS, IT'S OLD NEWS. IT'S
BORING. IT'S PREDICTABLE. AND IT DOES NOT IMPRESS
AT ALL.
The bottom line is that trying to impress a
woman usually has the OPPOSITE effect.
It not only makes you look like a nervous guy
who can't make normal conversation... it also
bores the hell out of women.
WHAT TO DO INSTEAD
OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with a
beautiful woman you just met a few days before...
She asks you what you do for a living.
Should you answer with:
1) "Well, I'm an engineer for a software company
that makes sophisticated vector widget plotting
algorithms. I've been with them for three years,
and I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHM
MANAGER."
2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in
a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked
ass? That's my job."
...?
Well, it all depends on what your outcome is.
If you want to try and IMPRESS the girl with
your cool high-tech job, then #1 will work just
fine.
Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all,
and it will make you sound like a jackass who is
trying to sound cool.
If you want to ACTUALLY impress her, try #2.
Most men don't have the BALLS to say something
like this when a woman asks a "serious" question
like "What do you do?".
If you REALLY want to make a long-lasting
impression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING.
She'll say "No, really... what do you do?".
Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you ever
seen it when an actor needs a stunt ass? I mean
hey... someone's got to do it".
Now, I can't possibly go into all the reasons
why it's a HUGE MISTAKE to try to impress a woman,
or to feel like everything you say should be
"impressive".
There are MANY reasons for this.
MORE IMPORTANTLY, there are a few things you
can do that will INSTANTLY impress a woman...
and I mean REALLY impress her.
But these things aren't OBVIOUS.
The most IMPORTANT thing you can do to
IMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerful
emotional ATTRACTION for you.
This feeling will stay with her long after you
have left and gone home.
And it's the one thing that will make women
pursue YOU... and try to impress YOU.
What's the best way to do this?
1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.
2) Go download a copy of my online eBook "Double
Your Dating", and read it. It contains literally
DOZENS and dozens of great techniques for you to
use that will make women feel ATTRACTION for you.
And if you've alread read my eBook, and you're
ready to take your success to an entirely new
level, then you must get yourself a copy of my
"Advanced Dating Techniques" CD/DVD Program.
This is the most complete, detailed, step-by-
step system available for becoming the kind of
man that women want to be with.
This program is GUARANTEED 100% by me to take
you to the next level and beyond with women.
Check out the free samples of both my eBook
and my Advanced Dating Techniques Program...
The eBook is here:
http://www.doubleyourdatingbook.com/emd24/
The Advanced Series is here:
http://www.doubleyourdatingbook.com/emd24/advancedseries/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
Load of bollocks really.
tedebear
Legal Alien
The Northstander said:They want
1. Holidays
2. New clothes
3. A bigger and better house
4. 24 hr compliments on how beautiful they are
5. To be taken out for a nice meal (usually expensive, whilst saving to go on holiday and buy a new house)
1. No - a long weekend can be far better - its just being together
2. Thats what I work for myself - I don't expect anyone to buy my clothes for me
3. Nope - I'd be happy in a cardboard box with the right person
4. No - but the odd "You look stunning tonight babe" goes miles
5. Not at all - the best are often cooked at home....
heres a few tips....
1. You have to have things in common otherwise you will each resent what the other does as it take you away from each other
2. If someone thinks the way to their heart is money - they are wrong...they mightn't know it now, but they will...
3. Its give and take FROM BOTH OF YOU...
4. Sometimes we need to talk more than you do - so sometimes you'll just have to listen - sorry but see point 3!!
Live and learn I suppose...
Lush
Mods' Pet
Dick Knights Mum said:
Exactly. People who are confident and happy about who they are, are always attractive - so long as it doesn't tip over into arrogance.
Northstander
Well-known member
- Oct 13, 2003
- 14,028
tedebear said:
"ARE YOU SEEING ANYONE?"
Tom Hark Preston Park
Will Post For Cash
- Jul 6, 2003
- 70,648
Gary Nelson said:
Huh?
BrightonBird
New member
I would just like a man to be himself, be nice to me and stop playing games. Also men shouldn't be too desperate!!
tedebear
Legal Alien
The Northstander said:"ARE YOU SEEING ANYONE?"
Sorry - I'm well and truly taken
Lush
Mods' Pet
And don't bother buying that book! Be yourself. Be happy with who you are. Be nice. Be interested in the other person - ask questions, ask their opinions on things - rather than trying too hard to tell them how interesting you are.
BTW it's NOT true that "girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money".
BTW it's NOT true that "girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money".
Robbo
New member
The Northstander said:They want
1. Holidays
2. New clothes
3. A bigger and better house
4. 24 hr compliments on how beautiful they are
5. To be taken out for a nice meal (usually expensive, whilst saving to go on holiday and buy a new house)
You have been watching my life over the past year haven't you!! Especially the last point!!
Northstander
Well-known member
- Oct 13, 2003
- 14,028
When I was living single life....
I used to find the most attractive thing in women was a brain, there is nothing worse than going out with a dizzy bird!
Girls with a brain can at least hold a conversation of any meaning!
I used to find the most attractive thing in women was a brain, there is nothing worse than going out with a dizzy bird!
Girls with a brain can at least hold a conversation of any meaning!