Little Piggy
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I have recieved this email from my rather lovely girlfriend this evening and would love the sound advice of NSC users for drafting my response:
"Right, time to talk…. I’m sorry if I have seemed a bit distant recently, have just had a lot on my mind. I think seeing John at the racing on Sunday and knowing how I’d feel if anything happened to him made me realise I still have very strong feelings for him. We have been doing a lot of talking and I have agreed that, once he realises things cannot be the way they were the last time, that we can give it another go, well, take things handy and see how it works out. I’m sorry if you feel I messed you around a bit, that definitely was not the intention. As far as I was concerned, me and John were just good friends and I was free to see who I wanted and like whoever I wanted. I do really like you but I think if I don’t give things a shot with John, I would always be wondering how it would have worked out. I would like us to still hang out as mates because I think we get on really well and have a laugh. If you don’t want to do this, I’ll understand but would be very disappointed. "
So... What do you say to that, if anything at all? To clarify facts, John was her ex from a year ago. Recently I said she was spending too much time with him and I was told off for being childish... The irony has not been lost on me
I hand over to you lot to come up with the best possible response.
P.S I have considered the potential this thread has for being a repeat of the "is my ex girlfriend a complete slut" thread, and decided I do not think it will, also I don't give a shit.
"Right, time to talk…. I’m sorry if I have seemed a bit distant recently, have just had a lot on my mind. I think seeing John at the racing on Sunday and knowing how I’d feel if anything happened to him made me realise I still have very strong feelings for him. We have been doing a lot of talking and I have agreed that, once he realises things cannot be the way they were the last time, that we can give it another go, well, take things handy and see how it works out. I’m sorry if you feel I messed you around a bit, that definitely was not the intention. As far as I was concerned, me and John were just good friends and I was free to see who I wanted and like whoever I wanted. I do really like you but I think if I don’t give things a shot with John, I would always be wondering how it would have worked out. I would like us to still hang out as mates because I think we get on really well and have a laugh. If you don’t want to do this, I’ll understand but would be very disappointed. "
So... What do you say to that, if anything at all? To clarify facts, John was her ex from a year ago. Recently I said she was spending too much time with him and I was told off for being childish... The irony has not been lost on me
I hand over to you lot to come up with the best possible response.
P.S I have considered the potential this thread has for being a repeat of the "is my ex girlfriend a complete slut" thread, and decided I do not think it will, also I don't give a shit.
