Holiday Romance.

[misterspatch]

Yesterday I arrived back from holiday, and was immediately feeling depressed. Not for being back in England but for knowing that I probably never see this amazing girl ever again. Distance is an issue with her living in Northamptonshire. Its not easy to move on but I ask, do I have to do so or should I try my best to see her again? We've both agreed it'd probably be too hard to meet up in England but I've been trying to convince her to go on holiday to the same place next year where I visit every year.

As you can see from this essay, I'm infatuated with her, but does this have to be the end?

 

[Titus]

It's only just over 200 miles from Brighton.

 

[surrey jim]

Northamptonshire to Brighton is only a couple of hours away. Why not get her down for weekend/ visit there?

 

[melias shoes]

less than 3 hours away. Hardly the other side of the world.

 

[smudge]

Jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when I was on holiday, but I've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

 

[melias shoes]

Jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when I was on holiday, but I've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

Bit harsh. Even though that's what I was thinking.

 

[misterspatch]

Jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when I was on holiday, but I've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

Thought as much

 

[pipkin112]

Jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when I was on holiday, but I've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

That's the way to do it, let the chap down lightly.

 

[bravohotelalpha]

Northamptonshire to Brighton is only a couple of hours away. Why not get her down for weekend/ visit there?

Where there's a will there's a way !

 

[misterspatch]

Where there's a will there's a way !

Oh only if that were true....

 

[BadFish]

Jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when I was on holiday, but I've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

are you trained in counseling?

 

[smudge]

Sorry if I was a bit blunt earlier, but if you try to chase where not wanted, you enter into stalker territory. If she's got your contact details, leave it to her. You never know, she might want to fan those holiday flames with a dirty weekend down in Brighton.

 

[melias shoes]

are you trained in counseling?

Imagine that. Thanks mate.

 

[misterspatch]

Sorry if I was a bit blunt earlier, but if you try to chase where not wanted, you enter into stalker territory. If she's got your contact details, leave it to her. You never know, she might want to fan those holiday flames with a dirty weekend down in Brighton.

Yeah but whilst she's still on holiday its probably best to leave her be. Don't worry about it. Exactly what I was thinking.

 

[bravohotelalpha]

Oh only if that were true....

If you BOTH really do want to give it a go you will both find a way - to see if it was just a holiday fling - who knows she may end up loving Brighton as well as you !

 

[misterspatch]

If you BOTH really do want to give it a go you will both find a way - to see if it was just a holiday fling - who knows she may end up loving Brighton as well as you !

She's still on holiday till Friday so best to leave anything until then.

 

[Seasider78]

Jesus, not another wet wipe opening up. Look mate, if she says "it's too hard for us to meet up when we get home", that translates as, "you were ok when I was on holiday, but I've got a boyfriend at home, so that's it".

That response made me spit my coffee out!!!

 

[Tux the albion Penguin]

To be honest this Is my take on It. When I was about 16/17 or so I went on holiday and literally got besotted with some girl. Well spent the best part of 2 weeks together. At the time I really didn't know what "Love" was but after the 2 weeks was up we had to go our separate ways. I was devastated If I'm honest. For about 2 months I wouldn't eat or anything. No leaving the house. You get my drift. I was literally "Love" sick. Mum had to take me to counselling and the rest of It. In the end I guess I couldn't accept moving on but I managed In the end. I suppose the moral Is. Don't allow yourself to get committed or It will screw with your emotions. I kinda learn't the hard way. To be honest. The heartache Isn't work It In the end. These days I take holidays and that as a pinch of salt. A bit of fun so to speak. Not to burst your bubble but best you focus on other things you enjoy and don't let this consume you.

TTAP

 

[Normal Rob]

She's still on holiday till Friday so best to leave anything until then.

Jesus wept. She'll be with someone different now. Move on.

 

[smeariestbat]

i did have a holiday romance, we lived 100 odd miles away so decided to give it a try. After about two weeks the girl literally did my head in, completely different when you get back home. keep the memories.