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pastafarian

Well-known member
Sep 4, 2011
11,902
Sussex
Fair enough to those girls who flash their bangers and selfies, if that is what they want to do that is their choice. This girl didn't make that choice.

Perfectly chilled mate and am not going to criticise anyone for the choices they make but if you put your actions out there on a public forum then you are going to get some slaps on the back and you are going to get some criticism. I am sure he is big enough to deal with both.

Probably most and probably most people have been involved in some douchbaggy things too. However it is also worth mentioning that most also probably got called out for such behaviour. i certainly did and as a result of being called out for such behaviour i thought about how i treat people and became a better person. If our mate here has a bit of a think about it and decides he agrees with the majority and continues his douchebag behaviour then so be it but at least he has been exposed to both sides of the argument.

you say majority........i say vocal minority

really no point in anybody getting their knickers in a twist over this,there are a few people hurling rather nasty insults,would say they have more questions needed about themselves than the OP

looking forward to the shirt appearing on Ebay later this week though
 




jackanada

Well-known member
Jul 19, 2011
3,161
Brighton
My daughter won't be a palace fan or go home with guys she meets in clubs

Douche bag behaviour and lack of respect is right. Maybe he will grow up, get married and have a daughter that he can proudly show this thread to.

Growing up will need to be done if he expects his daughter to grow up such a 'good' girl exposed to his attitudes to women.
Still future lad points from future dirty old men for raising a young lady with daddy issues. Send her to catholic school and they may even be doubled.
 


pastafarian

Well-known member
Sep 4, 2011
11,902
Sussex
NSC is a fantastic website, but in regards to its attitude towards women it still has a long way to go. Sexism and objectification of women is still common practice here, but I guess this is just a result of its main demographic being middle aged blokes.

in fairness i have already stated im not fussy who i shag,quite happy to do you as well if you want to be my sissy bitch,im sure you have no problem with the objectification of men.
 








nwgull

Well-known member
Jul 25, 2003
13,823
Manchester
NSC is a fantastic website, but in regards to its attitude towards women it still has a long way to go. Sexism and objectification of women is still common practice here, but I guess this is just a result of its main demographic being middle aged blokes.

I personally find that NSC's attitude towards women is fine where it is as a football based - and hence male dominated - message board.

If you don't like it, I suggest you frequent a message board where the demographic are feminists and white knights.
 




Surf's Up

Well-known member
Jul 17, 2011
10,181
Here
NSC is a fantastic website, but in regards to its attitude towards women it still has a long way to go. Sexism and objectification of women is still common practice here, but I guess this is just a result of its main demographic being middle aged blokes.

Which strikes me as being ageist. I presume you know for a fact that the main NSC demographic consists of middle aged men? and remind me how old the OP is?
 


nwgull

Well-known member
Jul 25, 2003
13,823
Manchester
i know a couple of websites where gazillions of girls flash their bangers with selfies and then post the pics,no doubt all their daddies are proud of this.

take a chill pill chum,bloke picks up girl,shags her,asks for lad points on Albion shirt front.


i wonder how many of the soppy twats moaning, NEVER EVER EVER boasted to their mates in their youth about shagging a girl or that she was a right dirty sort.

I bet the soppy twats moaning never did boast to their mates, because they never got much action with the birds themselves. It's jealousy.

A bit of advice to the younger lads on here from someone who's had a bit of experience of success and plenty of failure: women are not sexually attracted to 'nice guys', and they like men to be men. The phrase 'nice guy' is a bit of a misnomer anyway; men being chivalrous to women are just hoping that they'll score enough points to get into their knickers. Nice guys are generally dishonest, underhand and not very nice.
 


BadFish

Huge Member
Oct 19, 2003
17,132
I personally find that NSC's attitude towards women is fine where it is as a football based - and hence male dominated - message board.

If you don't like it, I suggest you frequent a message board where the demographic are feminists and white knights.

So attitudes to women are dependent on the forum in which they are expressed? I think this brings up a very interesting discussion.

I like to think i have the strength of character to maintain my attitude to women irrespective of the company I am in. Although failing this I would certainly choose to frequent somewhere else if I felt I could not.

I find the gist of your point rather depressing though as it suggests that we as male football fans conform to some regressive stereotype. I suppose mob mentality can explain some of this but surely it doesn't apply to a internet message board.
 




The Antikythera Mechanism

The oldest known computer
NSC Patron
Aug 7, 2003
7,805
If he had asked her if he could take an amusing photo of her, partially undressed, to upload onto a male dominated message board, and she had said "yes", there wouldn't be a problem at all. However, the likelihood of her having said "yes" are, in my opinion, minuscule. It just demonstrates a complete lack of discretion on the part of the OP. Bragging to your mates is one thing, doing the same to a forum of thousands of strangers is another.
 


BadFish

Huge Member
Oct 19, 2003
17,132
I bet the soppy twats moaning never did boast to their mates, because they never got much action with the birds themselves. It's jealousy.

A bit of advice to the younger lads on here from someone who's had a bit of experience of success and plenty of failure: women are not sexually attracted to 'nice guys', and they like men to be men. The phrase 'nice guy' is a bit of a misnomer anyway; men being chivalrous to women are just hoping that they'll score enough points to get into their knickers. Nice guys are generally dishonest, underhand and not very nice.

My advice to the younger lads is just to be yourself. There is little point turning yourself inside out to become what 'women' (love the idea of them all liking the same thing) like (unless of course you are just going to play the numbers game. When actually if you are looking for something a little more fulfilling that a knee trembler behind Ladbrokes you will find that there are plenty of women who respect someone who has the strength of character and confidence to be themselves.
 


Buzzer

Languidly Clinical
Oct 1, 2006
26,121
NSC is a fantastic website, but in regards to its attitude towards women it still has a long way to go. Sexism and objectification of women is still common practice here, but I guess this is just a result of its main demographic being middle aged blokes.

I'm not sure your hero, Russell Brand, would necessarily agree with that description. Here he is endorsing the book of the bloke banned from the UK for giving seminars on how to entrap women into having sex with him. One of the techniques actually involves throttling the woman (I kid you not).

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Can there be a worse objectification of women than this sort of book?
 




Mowgli37

Enigmatic Asthmatic
Jan 13, 2013
6,371
Sheffield
I bet the soppy twats moaning never did boast to their mates, because they never got much action with the birds themselves. It's jealousy.

A bit of advice to the younger lads on here from someone who's had a bit of experience of success and plenty of failure: women are not sexually attracted to 'nice guys', and they like men to be men. The phrase 'nice guy' is a bit of a misnomer anyway; men being chivalrous to women are just hoping that they'll score enough points to get into their knickers. Nice guys are generally dishonest, underhand and not very nice.

I'm sure the ladies dug your sweeping generalisations.

And seriously? Being nice to a women = trying to sleep with her?
 


fat old seagull

New member
Sep 8, 2005
5,239
Rural Ringmer
I bet the soppy twats moaning never did boast to their mates, because they never got much action with the birds themselves. It's jealousy.

A bit of advice to the younger lads on here from someone who's had a bit of experience of success and plenty of failure: women are not sexually attracted to 'nice guys', and they like men to be men.The phrase 'nice guy' is a bit of a misnomer anyway; men being chivalrous to women are just hoping that they'll score enough points to get into their knickers. Nice guys are generally dishonest, underhand and not very nice.

Wow, there's a lesson learnt. Go get your points lads, it's easy just be an rrrrsole. No wonder the worlds in a shite state if that's the benchmark for being a man.
 


soistes

Well-known member
Sep 12, 2012
2,643
Brighton
Some depressing, if predictable views on this thread.

Trying to take some positives out of it, at least there seems to be some debate about the underlying issue (derogatory and disrespectful attitudes to women, even if dressed up as laddish humour), and I would guess that if a similar sample of Albion fans had had such a discussion, say twenty years ago, the ratio of neanderthals to blokes with slightly more modern attitudes would have been a lot higher.
 


piersa

Well-known member
Apr 17, 2011
3,155
London
Don't think she'd care. She's a bit of a hoe. Probably much worse of her circulating the web. And it's not like you can see her identity.

You will defo get a repeat visit if she sees this.
 




Bombadier Botty

Complete Twaddle
Jun 2, 2008
3,258
Some depressing, if predictable views on this thread.

Trying to take some positives out of it, at least there seems to be some debate about the underlying issue (derogatory and disrespectful attitudes to women, even if dressed up as laddish humour), and I would guess that if a similar sample of Albion fans had had such a discussion, say twenty years ago, the ratio of neanderthals to blokes with slightly more modern attitudes would have been a lot higher.

This.
 




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