[Misc] Younger Brother dying.

[jakarta]

Had a phone call from Wigan Hospital earlier.

Apparently my younger brother was admitted over the weekend and is not expected to make it due to multiple organ failures, mostly liver. At 61...

No way I'm going to get up there in time to say goodbye.

I have had older members of my family going but my YOUNGER brother?

 

[croydon seagull]

Very sad to hear, my thoughts are with you.

 

[Mellotron]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Thoughts are with you.

 

[hart's shirt]

Very sorry to hear this.

Keep posting when you feel able to.

We're all here for you.

 

[Bakero]

Thoughts are with you, Jakarta. Take care.

 

[Thunder Bolt]

I feel for you. I was in Yorkshire, having visited my youngest brother in Hurstwood, Haywards Heath for three days, and returned because he was still in a coma, and the outcome unknown. He died 48 hours later, aged 21 from encephalitis (inflammation of the brain).
It is painful, so allow yourself to grieve, and find a friend who will let you talk about it. It does help. If it helps, send me a message.
Sometimes things happen in life where there is no explanation, and we just have to get through them.
Going to the funeral, when it's arranged will help you to accept it.

 

[chickens]

I’m really sorry to hear this. We don’t expect our younger siblings to go before us. My thoughts are with you and the rest of his family.

 

[Gwylan]

Sorry to hear this fella. I remember receiving a call from the hospital that my dad's organs were failing and despite leaving the house within minutes, didn't make it on time (he was 61 too).
That was bad enough but I can't imagine how it feels for it to be your younger brother - feel for you

 

[Tom Bombadil]

Like always in these situations I have no wordso f wisdom to help . All I can do is send you my love. It's all I have. Today and in the difficult time ahead remember we feel your pain and wish we could make it easier.

 

[BNthree]

Condolences. Rotten to hear, hope you're OK. It will be crap but it will get better eventually.

 

[Sue1983]

I'm so sorry to hear your news. As difficult as it will be, take care of you.

 

[ozzygull]

So sorry to hear this. Take care of your self.

 

[Rogero]

Too early but hopefully he had a full life. Sorry for your loss .

 

[The Clamp]

Very sorry to hear this.
Thoughts are with you. I’ve had the same thing with a brother.

 

[Normal Rob]

is it impossible to make it there in time? even if there is the smallest of chances you may feel better for having tried. My sympathies are with you and, as others have said, look after yourself.

 

[Simster]

Sorry to hear of your loss Jakarta. Terrible news.

 

[Official Old Man]

Sorry to hear this. Wishing you all the best.

 

[Seagull58]

Sincere condolences to you and your family.

 

[Badger]

So sorry to hear, that's awful news. My thoughts are with you.

 

[Tim Over Whelmed]

So sorry to hear this, wishing you and your family all the very best