I was a 10 year old mate
Only time I've ever been north stand, Madrid friendly game, lots of comments "oh never seen these people before, bet they didn't go to Gillingham" etc... Put me right off. Seem like pretentious wankers. Only chose to be there because it was a one off game so fancied a change of scenery
I was 5 when we left Gillingham, but I think you sound like an absolute bellend for what it’s worth.