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federicoed-up

New member
Feb 7, 2008
142
My girlfriend is a f***ing headcase, and I don't enjoy her company any more. But we've together three years and I moved the length of the country to live with her.. what should I do?
 




Djmiles

Barndoor Holroyd
Dec 1, 2005
12,074
Kitchener, Canada
Tell her you're gay, soften the blow n all that.

But seriously? Split up with her, I can't imagine anything worse than living with a girlfriend who you don't like anymore. Move on and find someone less annoying!
 




Robot Chicken

Seriously?
Jul 5, 2003
13,154
Chicken World
Pics?
 




Where in the country are you?
Have you made friends in the new location?
If you don't like her anymore and are a bit alone where you live I'd say let her down gently and move back to where you lived before you met her.
 




Stat Brother

Well-known member
NSC Patron
Jul 11, 2003
73,888
West west west Sussex
marry her, you are now well set for a life in wedlock. lol
 








Gully

Monkey in a seagull suit.
Apr 24, 2004
16,812
Way out west
I think you may have answered your question in the first line of your post.
 




tinx

Well-known member
Jul 6, 2003
9,199
Horsham Town
Just up and leave, don't leave a note or anything just take your stuff and go. Change your name and move to a different country under the false details and never return again.

Problem solved.
 


byf

New member
Sep 26, 2003
4,034
Bournemouth
My girlfriend is a f***ing headcase, and I don't enjoy her company any more. But we've together three years and I moved the length of the country to live with her.. what should I do?

I know how you feel mate.

Im the same....I met a girl only been with her 8 months or so..I love her but im just not happy. She is moody,angry and controlling and as much as I do she aint ever happy.

Its so hard to know the right thing to do..your head and everyone about is saying go and leave, give up and finish it, but your heart is saying stay it out....fight for her,.....maybe things will change.

I moved from manchester back down south and personally I think if im with her in 6 months I will be very surprised. But my advise is what im doing now...

Take it back to basics.......weigh everything up and see whether there is enough there to keep going. If not then courage is what must be done...to walk...ive never split up with anyone and hate the thought of it...but it seems the only issue if its that bad for you mate...easier said than done though hey.
 


You could wait until she dumps you, moves your stuff out to the pavement, and tells you she's been seeing some other bloke (me) for the last 3 months and that compared to him, you are complete rubbish in bed.
That way, you will be forced to make positive steps, and think for yourself. Plus, she'll feel better about it than if you dumped her.
 




ATFC Seagull

Aberystwyth Town FC
Jul 27, 2004
5,399
(North) Portslade
I know how you feel mate.

Im the same....I met a girl only been with her 8 months or so..I love her but im just not happy. She is moody,angry and controlling and as much as I do she aint ever happy.

I know every circumstance is individual etc etc but that rings a lot of bells and I really think you'll find that you don't love her, you just need something to make you realise that.
 


byf

New member
Sep 26, 2003
4,034
Bournemouth
I know every circumstance is individual etc etc but that rings a lot of bells and I really think you'll find that you don't love her, you just need something to make you realise that.


You know ive thought that alot recently. After coming out of a two year relationship just last year with a woman I would have crawled over hot coles.....im kind of feeling more and more going to spar for this one will soon be an effort.

I feel as if she has been a substitute of what I lost....not fair on me or her...but kind of reality.
 








The Wookiee

Back From The Dead
Nov 10, 2003
15,642
Worthing
My girlfriend is a f***ing headcase, and I don't enjoy her company any more. But we've together three years and I moved the length of the country to live with her.. what should I do?

I think all women are head cases !!

Obviously some more than others.

The key is how you deal with them and if she is more good than bad.
 


Wilko

LUZZING chairs about
Sep 19, 2003
9,929
BN1
If a relationship is not working and you are not happy - GET OUT. I know far too many coiuples who continue year after year of unhappiness, what annoys me most is that they also moan about it! I know it is all very easy to say call it a day (especially financially) but we only live once.
 


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