Can you sleep with a mate without it being weird afterwards?

[ali jenkins]

Following on from the friends with an ex thread, can you sleep with a mate without it being weird?

Just asking like


Edit: Obviously im talking about the OPPOSITE sex!

 

[hans kraay fan club]

Following on from the friends with an ex thread, can you sleep with a mate without it being weird?

Just asking like

Depends who the mate is. If it was a hairy arsed bloke called Dave, then I'd definately feel weird.

 

[British Bulldog]

Following on from the friends with an ex thread, can you sleep with a mate without it being weird?

Just asking like

Depends if your talking the same sex as you kind of mate or the opposite sex?

 

[Les Biehn]

I always get off with my female mates. If you drink often with alady this is bound to happen. But sleep with, can be a bit complicated.

 

[Uncle C]

Re: Re: Can you sleep with a mate without it being weird afterwards?

Depends who the mate is. If it was a hairy arsed bloke called Dave, then I'd definately feel weird.

You'd definitely be feeling a little queer.

 

[Clothes Peg]

I used to always end up with the same mate at parties, clubs whatever. Even the prom. He's now gay. I don't know what that concludes. I didn't fully sleep with him though.

 

[Les Biehn]

I used to always end up with the same mate at parties, clubs whatever. Even the prom. He's now gay. I don't know what that concludes. I didn't fully sleep with him though.

And now you are dating me, the gayest man on NSC apparently. You need to think carefully about your choices my dear.

 

[ali jenkins]

I used to always end up with the same mate at parties, clubs whatever. Even the prom. He's now gay. I don't know what that concludes. I didn't fully sleep with him though.

well thats your answer, you teased him so much that he thaught all females are like it and turned gay.


Its not Les Biehn your talking about is it?

Edit, too slow!

 

[Clothes Peg]

well thats your answer, you teased him so much that he thaught all females are like it and turned gay.


Its not Les Biehn your talking about is it?

Edit, too slow!

OMG, I turned him gay. I feel awful now. I felt awful already, but this has made me feel worse.

 

[British Bulldog]

OMG, I turned him gay. I feel awful now. I felt awful already, but this has made me feel worse.

Probably an achievement best left off your CV.

 

[¤DãŃn¥ §êãGüLL¤]

Kinky, would you like to answer this one for us?

 

[Kinky Gerbil]

 

[Bluejuice]

I used to think no, but so long as you focus on somebody else when you're about it then you can happily go back to just being friends afterwards knowing that secretly you really wanna f*** her sister.

I've gotten away with it twice this year and neither relationship has yet soured

 

[Cian]

Done it while incredibly drunk. Not been weird with -her- afterwards, as I later found out virtually all my mates had too, so all the weirdness was there...

 

[Tom Hark Preston Park]

There is a school of thought that there's no such thing as platonic mates - just friends of the opposite sex that you haven't slept with yet.

 

[Buzzer]

There is a school of thought that there's no such thing as platonic mates - just friends of the opposite sex that you haven't slept with yet.

and to extend that - it's also said that men do not have female friends that they don't find attractive.

 

[Buzzer]

Done it while incredibly drunk. Not been weird with -her- afterwards, as I later found out virtually all my mates had too, so all the weirdness was there...

all your mates have slept with you whilst you've been incredibly drunk?

 

[Biscuit]

Girls get alot weirder about these things than guys. I think its more emotional for them, but to be fair, if you sleep with a mate, and everyone knows the score.. whats the problem?

 

[NMH]

Remember how, if you went with a girl and told any of your mates afterwards, you were a real bastard.

She, however, had already told her mates and they'd told every one of their mates who knew both of you. But, that was okay because she's a girl (?)

Anyway - if I feel a friendship with a girl, a friendship that I valued, I usually don't mess it up by shagging her. I might shag her mates though, as they are fair game.
Therefore, if one female friend = several rounds with several of her pals, do the maths!

 

[eastlondonseagull]

Have done it a few times with female friends, and it's been great.

But it has got a bit tricky afterwards on a couple of occasions. f*** buddies are marvellous in theory, but you usually get one of you who has bigger feelings.