[Politics] Asking for a friend…

ChickenBaltiPie · Nov 17, 2021

Fed up with stubbornly being told I’m entirely wrong, about EVERYTHING, under all circumstances, and made to think I’m insane, so I’m curious…do you seek out your partner on returning home to say ‘hello’ and do you say ‘goodnight’ before going to bed? (If I can work out how I’ll add a pole.) Thanks in advance.

Oh and obv feel free to take the p!ss to your hearts content. If I couldn’t take it, I wouldn’t have posted, so knock yourself out.

Guinness Boy · Nov 17, 2021

ChickenBaltiPie said:
Fed up with stubbornly being told I’m entirely wrong, about EVERYTHING, under all circumstances, and made to think I’m insane and demanding, so I’m curious…do you seek out your partner on returning home to say ‘hello’ and do you say ‘goodnight’ before going to bed? (If I can work out how I’ll add a pole. Thanks in advance. (Oh and obv feel free to take the p!ss to your hearts content. If I couldn’t take it, I wouldn’t have posted, so knock yourself out.)

Done it for you mate.

Us mods are all heart.

Mackenzie · Nov 17, 2021

Yes.

I say hello and goodnight every time. Sorry.

redoubtable seagull · Nov 17, 2021

Goodnight sweet cheeks!

ChickenBaltiPie · Nov 17, 2021

Guinness Boy said:
Done it for you mate.

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Us mods are all heart.

Haha thanks! That’s the issue I had with my ex GF. haha

Wrong-Direction · Nov 17, 2021

I say hello and goodnight, most of the evening we're doing stuff in separate rooms though

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Baldseagull · Nov 17, 2021

ChickenBaltiPie said:
Fed up with stubbornly being told I’m entirely wrong, about EVERYTHING, under all circumstances, and made to think I’m insane, so I’m curious…do you seek out your partner on returning home to say ‘hello’ and do you say ‘goodnight’ before going to bed? (If I can work out how I’ll add a pole.) Thanks in advance.

Oh and obv feel free to take the p!ss to your hearts content. If I couldn’t take it, I wouldn’t have posted, so knock yourself out.

Yes, say hello and goodnight. The only exceptions are those blissful couple of days after a row where she has decided she isn't talking to you, and thinks it some sort of punishment, you don't want to ruin that by being too friendly.

ChickenBaltiPie · Nov 17, 2021

Baldseagull said:
Yes, say hello and goodnight. The only exceptions are those blissful couple of days after a row where she has decided she isn't talking to you, and thinks it some sort of punishment, you don't want to ruin that by being too friendly.

I get two hours if I’m lucky. She gets over things very quickly haha. Me, not so much, I love a good sulk!

AmexRuislip · Nov 17, 2021

ChickenBaltiPie said:
Fed up with stubbornly being told I’m entirely wrong, about EVERYTHING, under all circumstances, and made to think I’m insane, so I’m curious…do you seek out your partner on returning home to say ‘hello’ and do you say ‘goodnight’ before going to bed? (If I can work out how I’ll add a pole.) Thanks in advance.

Oh and obv feel free to take the p!ss to your hearts content. If I couldn’t take it, I wouldn’t have posted, so knock yourself out.

Mrs AR is my soul mate, so no piss taking here :thumbsup:

As I work shift, I say hello and goodbye everytime home to work or work to home.

BNthree · Nov 17, 2021

I say hello, good night, please and thank you etc. for me these small interactions help grease the relationship between us.

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Worried Man Blues · Nov 17, 2021

Always shout out hello when I come in, unless I was only in the garden. She may answer from the west wing or not. If there has been a silence...............I always say, I am ready to talk when you are just let me know! I also have the advantage that my wife told me I was perfect. In fact she said.. and you're bloody perfect you are. I rest my case.

Sirnormangall · Nov 17, 2021

I’ve stopped talking to her - don’t like to interrupt.

Nobby Cybergoat · Nov 17, 2021

Yeh, saying hello, good morning etc is pretty normal

maltaseagull · Nov 17, 2021

ChickenBaltiPie said:
Fed up with stubbornly being told I’m entirely wrong, about EVERYTHING, under all circumstances, and made to think I’m insane, so I’m curious…do you seek out your partner on returning home to say ‘hello’ and do you say ‘goodnight’ before going to bed? (If I can work out how I’ll add a pole.) Thanks in advance.

Oh and obv feel free to take the p!ss to your hearts content. If I couldn’t take it, I wouldn’t have posted, so knock yourself out.

Goodnight!

Jim Van Winkle · Nov 17, 2021

ChickenBaltiPie said:
Fed up with stubbornly being told I’m entirely wrong, about EVERYTHING, under all circumstances, and made to think I’m insane, so I’m curious…do you seek out your partner on returning home to say ‘hello’ and do you say ‘goodnight’ before going to bed? (If I can work out how I’ll add a pole.) Thanks in advance.

Oh and obv feel free to take the p!ss to your hearts content. If I couldn’t take it, I wouldn’t have posted, so knock yourself out.

Maybe you and your partner aren’t meant to be together.

ChickenBaltiPie · Nov 17, 2021

Jim Van Winkle said:
Maybe you and your partner aren’t meant to be together.

That important then huh?

Reddleman · Nov 17, 2021

I do always say hi when coming home and one of us will pop our head into say good night as we head upstairs.

What I would be more concerned about from your OP is being made to feel you are wrong about everything all the time. To be honest that’s not right and not healthy and eventually will get too much. I don’t know you obviously so don’t want to say anything too inflammatory but that needs sorted.

Jim Van Winkle · Nov 17, 2021

ChickenBaltiPie said:
That important then huh?

After consulting Sally Jessy Raphael, Ricki Lake and Dr. Phil communication is an important part of a relationship.

Brighthelmstone · Nov 17, 2021

Of course, just plain rude not to tbh.

ChickenBaltiPie · Nov 17, 2021

Reddleman said:
What I would be more concerned about from your OP is being made to feel you are wrong about everything all the time. To be honest that’s not right and not healthy and eventually will get too much. I don’t know you obviously so don’t want to say anything too inflammatory but that needs sorted.

Thanks man. I agree. Appreciate you taking the time. (Tactfully.) It’s tough to have your point of view invalidated at every turn, told your feelings are baseless and that I shouldn’t feel the way I do or that I’m overreacting, only to be punished if I ever voice concern. It’s not even about being right or wrong, just to have the other person see another perspective from time to time would be so much healthier.

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[Politics] Asking for a friend…

Is it polite and respectful or needy and unnecessary to say ‘Hello’ & ‘Goodnight?’

It’s important/polite to greet your partner when you get home or say good night before bed.

It’s needy to expect your partner to say hello upon returning home or goodnight before going to bed.

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