[Misc] How lovers part.....?

Pickles

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• Apr 26, 2021

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Called it a day yesterday / today with a lovely and beautiful lady, after a year. She's married and living with him in separate rooms these days, but not the question...

No worries, I shall deal with my issues.

My question is very simple, how do you deal with the situation when you see the ex in town again, as an example, after being so close intimately for so long and so deep in each other's mind?

Coffee and all that same old?

 

beorhthelm

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Jul 21, 2003

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• Apr 26, 2021

• #2

believe the etiquette is to dive into nearest shop and pretend to browse while watching for them to pass. if no shop available, read your hastily raised newspaper very intently.

 

phoenix

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• Apr 26, 2021

• #3

Its hard my friend, really hard , but you just have to move on. For your own sake, good luck.

 

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BluesRockDJ

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• Apr 26, 2021

• #4

Probably not come on here ?

 

Pickles

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BluesRockDJ said:

Probably not come on here ?

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Why shouldn't I come on here? It's a reasonable question.

Not advice, just wondering what others would do.

It's a forum mate.

 

The Wookiee

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• Apr 26, 2021

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Pickles said:

Called it a day yesterday / today with a lovely and beautiful lady, after a year. She's married and living with him in separate rooms these days, but not the question...

No worries, I shall deal with my issues.

My question is very simple, how do you deal with the situation when you see the ex in town again, as an example, after being so close intimately for so long and so deep in each other's mind?

Coffee and all that same old?

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If you are that bothered about seeing her in town etc then maybe you should not have called it off ?

 

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METALMICKY

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• Apr 26, 2021

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BluesRockDJ said:

Probably not come on here ?

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Is sadly the correct answer. Only you can deal with it in the manner that suits you. And if she was married where were you expecting it to go? That's not in any way meant to be judgmental but it's a serious obstacle.

 

Pickles

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The Wookiee said:

If you are that bothered about seeing her in town etc then maybe you should not have called it off ?

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Not the question that I asked.

Blimey, I shall stick to Maupay's bad finishing x

 

The Wookiee

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• Apr 26, 2021

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Pickles said:

Not the question that I asked.

Blimey, I shall stick to Maupay's bad finishing x

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Sorry it wasn’t meant as a dig, it was a genuine comment.

Clearly you still have feelings, why not try and work things out ?

 

Weststander

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• Apr 26, 2021

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Pickles said:

Why shouldn't I come on here? It's a reasonable question.

Not advice, just wondering what others would do.

It's a forum mate.

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You passed on no personal details, just sharing your thoughts.

 

BN9 BHA

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Mackenzie

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• Apr 26, 2021

• #12

Be friendly and polite and make time to say hello, she’s probably feeling just as awkward.

Keep smiling.

 

Icy Gull

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• Apr 26, 2021

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NSC can be an excellent place to seek neutral advice, always the risk of a binfest though too

 

Live by the sea

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Sell up and move to a different town ....

 

Westdene Seagull

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• Apr 26, 2021

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I'm known for my diplomacy so maybe I can help but .....

 

Prince Monolulu

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The Race Hill

• Apr 26, 2021

• #16

Threesome?

Never say never.

 

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albionfan37

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• Apr 26, 2021

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Pickles said:

Called it a day yesterday / today with a lovely and beautiful lady, after a year. She's married and living with him in separate rooms these days, but not the question...

No worries, I shall deal with my issues.

My question is very simple, how do you deal with the situation when you see the ex in town again, as an example, after being so close intimately for so long and so deep in each other's mind?

Coffee and all that same old?

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Get balls deep up her best mate

 

WATFORD zero

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beorhthelm said:

believe the etiquette is to dive into nearest shop and pretend to browse while watching for them to pass. if no shop available, read your hastily raised newspaper very intently.

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This. Luckily when I was younger and broke up with someone I very rarely saw them again. I can't imagine that moving in the same circles and having trying to have a 'different' relationship would be easy. Good Luck

*edit* Or, as above ^

 

Prince Monolulu

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• Apr 26, 2021

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WATFORD zero said:

Luckily when I was younger and broke up with someone I very rarely saw them again. I can't imagine that moving in the same circles and having trying to have a 'different' relationship would be easy.

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How he/she/Fido must regret that decision.

 

The Clamp

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• Apr 26, 2021

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Forget about her. While you’re moping about and worrying about things that will likely never happen, I guarantee you she’s out looking for her next drilling. Birds aren’t nearly as sentimental as we give them credit for. Man up.

Hope this helps.