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[Brighton] Happy Pride Day !



Conelli98

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Dec 18, 2016
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Happy Benders!

To all the Girls and Boys in Brighton today, enjoy your Bender, stay safe, have fun, drink plenty and do Brighton proud. X
 




WATFORD zero

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Jul 10, 2003
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We are just off to pick up my old mum and take her to Pride and meet the kids down there.

Enjoy yourselves everyone who's going :thumbsup:
 




Palacefinder General

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Apr 5, 2019
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What is your major malfunction? I imagine almost every gay male went through school hearing that derogatory term aimed at them, and on into adult life. Call me a flake of snow, but did it really merit such a juvenile attempt at humour?
 










mejonaNO12 aka riskit

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Dec 4, 2003
21,498
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To all the Girls and Boys in Brighton today, enjoy your Bender, stay safe, have fun, drink plenty and do Brighton proud. X

That's really clever because I saw your thread title and I was like "woah!!!!" but then I clicked on it and I was all like "oh!!".

It's very very witty!!!
 




The Wizard

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Jul 2, 2009
18,383
Homophobic I'm not!
I was merely encouraging everyone to have a fantastic day, of drinking, partying etc.

Oh come on, you can’t be that stupid to use that word associated with pride? Either stupid or being deliberately provocative, joking or not.
 


Wellesley

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Pretty Plnk Fairy

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nickbrighton

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Feb 19, 2016
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Homophobic I'm not!
I was merely encouraging everyone to have a fantastic day, of drinking, partying etc.

What is your major malfunction? I imagine almost every gay male went through school hearing that derogatory term aimed at them, and on into adult life. Call me a flake of snow, but did it really merit such a juvenile attempt at humour?

I was wondering whether to reply to this thread or not. I do not think for a second that Conelli wanted to be offensive, or has anything against us gay boys and girls and was probably just putting a lighthearted message. Palacefinder has however squarely hit the proverbial nail on the head. Lots of us grew up throughout our early teens being slagged off by people using this term. To me being called a bender just reminds me of a somewhat difficult time where I was constantly reminded that I was considered a second class citizen.The " avoid him, he's a bender" comments even if not directed at me, do strike home. Would Conelli have written the same sentance using the word n****r if it had been a BAME event? of course not. And thats what is meant by casual homophobia, people using derogatory terms without thinking about it, without realising what they are saying.
 




Conelli98

New member
Dec 18, 2016
674
I was wondering whether to reply to this thread or not. I do not think for a second that Conelli wanted to be offensive, or has anything against us gay boys and girls and was probably just putting a lighthearted message. Palacefinder has however squarely hit the proverbial nail on the head. Lots of us grew up throughout our early teens being slagged off by people using this term. To me being called a bender just reminds me of a somewhat difficult time where I was constantly reminded that I was considered a second class citizen.The " avoid him, he's a bender" comments even if not directed at me, do strike home. Would Conelli have written the same sentance using the word n****r if it had been a BAME event? of course not. And thats what is meant by casual homophobia, people using derogatory terms without thinking about it, without realising what they are saying.

Fair point Nick, I REALLY didnt mean any harm, as you could tell I wanted just to wish everyone a brilliant day and do Brighton proud as the City is always fantastic at hosting the event!
 


Wrong-Direction

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Mar 10, 2013
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Town banging and as colourful as ever, love this place

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