I always start by putting a bowl on the counter into which I pour the cornflakes.
I then add milk to taste.
It may be just my personal style, but I then usually introduce a spoon to the scene to make the milk and cornflake consumption an easy and clean process from start to finish.
A short while after this (typically 3-7 seconds) I commence eating.
Bowl > initial layer of cornflakes > sprinkling of nutty muesli (Dorset Cereals Glorious Roasted Nut Muesli, if available) > a few grapes or sliced banana > add a modest amount of skimmed milk > Enjoy.