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Martin Ling - Interesting read
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Spencer Vignes
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- Oct 4, 2012
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An excellent piece. Football might be the beautiful game, but depression is indiscriminate.
joeinbrighton
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I read this yesterday. Really powerful read and good to hear that he has his life under control at the moment.
I've read the book that is mentioned in the piece called "Living on the Volcano". The chapter on Ling is fascinating to read, as is the book generally.
I've read the book that is mentioned in the piece called "Living on the Volcano". The chapter on Ling is fascinating to read, as is the book generally.
Wardy's twin
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- Oct 21, 2014
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Important for people to recognise that if you have a problem then get help , difficult I know but it is the best way to improve.
It's World Mental Health week so it's important that there are threads like this. Depression is such a horrible thing; it has no logic - doesn't matter if you're a millionaire or a famous person with millions of fans. The worst thing though is to bottle it all up so there's no shame in talking to a specialist doctor or even a good cry to let all the pain out to a close friend or family member. Anti-depressants can work but only if they're the RIGHT ones. Don't be fobbed off by a doctor if they have an attitude of "pull yourself together". There's always light at the end of the tunnel.
Everybody deserves to feel happy.
Everybody deserves to feel happy.
DarrenFreemansPerm
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When Ling was first diagnosed with his mental health issues just three managers from the professional game picked up the phone to call him and offer their support . Two of them were Alex Ferguson and Steve Bruce, I'm sure you can all guess who the third was 
Norman Potting
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Good read - puts day to day worries into perspective.
portlock seagull
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Daily Mail in Brilliant Journalism:Shocker!
Stumpy Tim
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Love him or hate him, but Alex Ferguson was always one manager who did things like that. I'm pretty sure he was one of the few Premier league managers who wrote a letter supporting Falmer, and every time there's a story like this he's always one of the managers who rings or writes to offer help.When Ling was first diagnosed with his mental health issues just three managers from the professional game picked up the phone to call him and offer their support . Two of them were Alex Ferguson and Steve Bruce, I'm sure you can all guess who the third was
- Apr 5, 2014
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Even a shocking lack of crude and ignorant comments from the DM faithful.
Sometimes folk forget that money is not normally the primary motivation to succeed in football. Players just want to...play. When a career is over it can feel like a life had ended. They live and breath the game. A big old house and healthy bank balance is no compensation. I bet many would trade most of that for another five years.
I know little of his management but it sounds like he is no mug. Best wishes to him and I hope the game affords him a splendid future in coaching and managing.
Sometimes folk forget that money is not normally the primary motivation to succeed in football. Players just want to...play. When a career is over it can feel like a life had ended. They live and breath the game. A big old house and healthy bank balance is no compensation. I bet many would trade most of that for another five years.
I know little of his management but it sounds like he is no mug. Best wishes to him and I hope the game affords him a splendid future in coaching and managing.
- Apr 5, 2014
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Never doubted the humanity of the man. Stories back it up. He's from good stock.