Jack Straw
I look nothing like him!
So. Why does everyone at the moment start the answer to a question with the word "So"? Well?
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Is "So" The New "Well"?
- Thread starter Jack Straw
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Gullflyinghigh
Registered User
- Apr 23, 2012
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It's not just the answer to questions, I've a gent who sits near me at work (henceforth referred to as GHI - 'Greasy Hitler Impersonator') and every bloody sentence starts with it.
It doesn't matter whether he's answering a question, asking something or just generally chatting, the GHI can't help itself.
Even worse, the length of it tends to change depending on how much he has to think about his words. Quite often you'll get a mammoth 'sooooo' whilst he's ruminating.
It doesn't matter whether he's answering a question, asking something or just generally chatting, the GHI can't help itself.
Even worse, the length of it tends to change depending on how much he has to think about his words. Quite often you'll get a mammoth 'sooooo' whilst he's ruminating.
I wouldn't say it was the new well, since it is something that has been happening for a while now. I'm pretty sure you can dig out some of the old "things that annoy you" threads that have been on here and the overuse of 'So...' at the start of sentences will be in there.
I say it, probably a lot. I try not to, because when I was at uni one of the guys there would start almost every sentence with "so..." but would also pause, giving me the chance to jump in with "a needle pulling thread", which seemed to be an effective way of stopping him doing it so much.
I say it, probably a lot. I try not to, because when I was at uni one of the guys there would start almost every sentence with "so..." but would also pause, giving me the chance to jump in with "a needle pulling thread", which seemed to be an effective way of stopping him doing it so much.
Megazone
On his last warning
Is "like" the new "erm"?
CorgiRegisteredFriend
Well-known member
"I mean" is another odd sentence starter.
It's just another processing sound. When you're communicating via radio with many people on the same channel you will often here 'errhhh and errrhh this' etc it's just way of indicating you have more to input to whatever you're saying.
So...OP...errrrrr...what you wearing?
So...OP...errrrrr...what you wearing?
I found myself doing that all the time. I didn't like it, and I think I've stopped it.
John Bumlick
Banned
has this reached australia yet? if so, i look forward to hearing their cricketers start sentences with "so yeah no...."
melias shoes
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- Oct 14, 2010
- 4,830
Don't get me started. I actually told a group of girls to stop saying bloody 'Like' last week. Another is when they ask for something they say ' Can I get '. No you cannot Get it. You may 'Have it'.
scooter1
How soon is now?
I receive a large quantity of informal applications as part of my job, and the amount that start "so, I'm emailing you........" Is incredible. It's a new thing and I'm astounded that people believe this is a good opening gambit
Don't get me started. I actually told a group of girls to stop saying bloody 'Like' last week. Another is when they ask for something they say ' Can I get '. No you cannot Get it. You may 'Have it'.
Two of my pet hates
Worthingite
Sexy Pete... :D
All through the ashes, me and a friend of mine put a pound into a jar every time an Australian player started an answer to a question with "Look". Paid for a nice takeaway with sides and a couple of beers each at the end of the series
Super Steve Earle
Well-known member
Pleased to confirm I can't recall anyone starting a sentence with the word 'So' in my world. Hopefully it's dying out already!
I had not noticed So being used to start a sentence but as others have mentioned the Aussie Look annoys me intensely with Andrew Strauss being one of the worst offenders. Rant over. I feel better already.
Gilliver's Travels
Peripatetic
'So' is certainly annoying, since it suggests the speaker hasn't been listening at all and is merely interrupting to continue from where he left off.
But that's not nearly as annoying as uptalk? Where any sentence uttered is instantly turned into... a question? Has the speaker suddenly become somehow unsure of, for example, his own name or address, and now seeking your reassurance?
And since when did 'I said' get supplanted in any conversation involving under-25s by 'I was like' ?
So.... I was like...know what I mean? All totally horrendous.
[ We do, of course, all accept that English is indeed a living language. It's just that we hate being forced to see the changes happening before our disbelieving and disapproving eyes.]
But that's not nearly as annoying as uptalk? Where any sentence uttered is instantly turned into... a question? Has the speaker suddenly become somehow unsure of, for example, his own name or address, and now seeking your reassurance?
And since when did 'I said' get supplanted in any conversation involving under-25s by 'I was like' ?
So.... I was like...know what I mean? All totally horrendous.
[ We do, of course, all accept that English is indeed a living language. It's just that we hate being forced to see the changes happening before our disbelieving and disapproving eyes.]
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Don't get me started. I actually told a group of girls to stop saying bloody 'Like' last week. Another is when they ask for something they say ' Can I get '. No you cannot Get it. You may 'Have it'.
'Can I get' is a North Americanism. When I lived in Canada it was standard. Because of that it doesn't offend my ears. People are just aping what's on the telly.
So . . . . . its 'like' that does it for me. One of my ex-students used it all the time, and pronounced it 'laaaahk'. It has now become part of my work lexicon now, as shorthand for soft headed students, and general thickiness. Innit.