Is this a thread bashing JFC?
Does he keep his bedroom reasonably tidy Tom ? His undoubted talents as a young footballer are there for all to see. It's plates under his bed that would rile me more than him having the rare 'off game"
Take his toys away.
He obviously doesn't spend every minute of his leisure time playing sport, he must either watch tv, listen to music, use a tablet or something. My daughter is home in an hour - she returns to no toys today, the little ****.Yes that is exactly what I should do and I know it. His toys are his sports
Yes that is exactly what I should do and I know it. His toys are his sports, which he plays at a very high standard and I can't bring myself to do that. I tried thumping him but that's not the way apparently. You'd just think they would do these little things . I mean loud music, lefty politics....... I know he wouldn't do gear because of his fitness...........I don't care about ........but fecking yogurt pots and destroying a kitchen in 2 minutes does my head in. Yes I need counciling I know but Jesus !!!!!
His room, let him live in filth as long as it's contained in his space that's fine. Mine used to have plates and glasses with penicillin growing on them before they felt they needed to clean the dishes and glasses up. Keeping the other half from inflicting GBH on them for their filthy habits was another matter.
If it was just his room maybe I could cope but it spreads to the kitchen, my tools left on the lawn, borrowed expensive aftershave, thrown about like its Brut.
Actually Mods close this thread now please.