Oh greif glasfryn, don't get me wrong. this one arrived about 2 months after I had my 19 year old put down with kidney failure. It took me 2 months to get his/her trust enough to allow me to stroke it, let alone pick it up. The only thing I worry about is that it gets ill, I am not paying...
You're welcome to the stray that has been living in my back garden for the past 15 months, and that's no joke. S/he comes in each morning, gets fed, goes back out and lies in the sun, or rain right now, then comes back in each evening and eats again. And yes, it is a stray. It splits sleeping...