I think it’s higher than that now, isn’t it? And that doesn’t account for the number of people living in miserable marriages because they feel some sort of religious/moral obligation to their vows or, more likely, the financial cost of separation and divorce.
Sounds like you’re being very pragmatic and sensible. I can imagine that it might be slightly annoying that she’s getting 3x the assets, but a clean break really is the best thing. Enjoy the freedom to do what you want and life away from the stresses that caused you to divorce.
There’s no way...
At first I though that 75/25 looked ok, but then when you added details of having the kids 3 days out of 7, and that main reason for earning lower earnings is because she can’t be arsed to work more than 60% of the week, I think you’re getting a bit of a raw deal.
I’d take further legal advice...