as a gay man of middling age, I don't know what the difference between gay and queer is-so god help the rest of you. Gay tends to be used for homosexual men- Lesbian for women, though not exclusively. Your post didn't come across as offensive or sneering- just inquisitive-which should be welcomed
There is a huge difference between gender and sexuality. Various advocate groups and the media seem to go out of the way to confuse rather than educate.
Confusion isn't helped by the seemingly endless drive by various campaign groups to "lump everyone" under the LGBTQ+ banner. As a Gay man I...