Firstly, I am glad you are here. Second - We are ALL here for you, no matter what.
I don't know the full story of what is happening, but all I can say is get some rest, the people who love you and know you best will realise what this is doing to you. Please, stay strong for your little un's...
What about that big place on West St? Can't remember what it's called, but I think it's one of those all you can eat joints. It's big (though whether the food is good I couldn't tell you!!)
Alternatively, I think the Wetherspoons West Quays hires out it's upstairs for free if there is enough...
Can anyone get Bozza on the case and do a reverse Jamie on him?? As in, get his details, and then get someone to check on him. I've spoken to him a few times on PM, when he was looking for a job, lovely guy, hope we can help him.
What's happened mate? Nothing's unsolveable, nothing that a cup of tea and a bit of thought can't fix. PM me if you want to talk, but I find that, as long as you wake up the following morning, nothing is ever as bad as it first seems. Trust me mate.
Take it easy.