For balance, been to many matches where everything has passed without incident and respect shown. One thing that certainly doesn’t help is the attitude of players in the premier league. Kids copy their idols.
My son played in a football tournament in the summer. He’s an u15. It was running way behind. Turned out the reason was four refs had walked out after being abused officiating the u9’s, one physically.
Also heard a story about a manager telling players, a ref and a welfare officer to eff off...