That limp hanging out a leg reached further than the Arsenal player and directly come down on the ball, so much so it bounced up and hit the cheating diving player square in the face, all the time physically not touching the cheat at all.
I might just trust a professional ref sitting in front of a number of tv's over a woman who has only ever played a poor standard of football, and as for the male "experts" most don't have a clue of the laws of the game.