I care quite a bit. I love Scotland and proposed to my fiance on Skye last May. I think it's a shame that it's become cool to want the Scottish football team to lose and so on, and it'd surely be better if we all supported each other? :shrug:
Cue being called wet!
I don't think anyone in Scotland does, let alone here. To be honest the ramifications are so complicated, it's hardly surprising. I think the decision is therefore likely to be made on a more ideological basis, which perhaps isn't ideal.
I think you should have some more options there. I want them to stay part of the UK (and think they will)... But if they don't want to be, they really can get stuffed! They'll need their own currency, their own passport system, their own transport system, etc.
Edit: Having read your entire...