Maybe not you but what someone does , is , character , sexuality absolutely has an influence on how one interacts with them . You may be exception to the rule but personalities always adapt within certain boundaries when talking to people with different backgrounds including sexuality...
Same issue as it is in society. I don't believe you will ever get to the same stage we are at where racism is wrong. There will always be a large percentage of men that won't get their heads round homosexuality , particularly feminine blokes will always be the target. It's the way society works...