He should be able to claim that money for the course back, When I passed at 14, ( six years ago) my course money was refunded to me after completing six competitive games. Also as a word of advice, possible email all local youth football secretaries in your area to see if there are any...
Having started reffing when I was his age , I would expect £20-25 for a youth game. As he is 14 he will probably be doing teams younger than himself so that's fair for a normal season game.
However as it was a tournament I would have expected more, I did a competition this weekend myself and...