I wasn't there yesterday, so I can't comment about the decisions over the game as a whole, and whether the ref "appeared to favour us", But I have seen other Brighton posters comment that there was a stonewall penalty we didn't get, in addition to a clear handball against a Brighton player not...
Just seen it on SSN.
From the angle the referee had, I can totally understand why he gave it. The fact that the ball didnt change direction as Calderon touched it was the killer for the ref who was more or less behind it.
I've also seen a still in the Bournemouth Echo which shows Calderon...
Eddie Howe commented words to the effect of "that apart from getting the penalty decision wrong, the ref had a decent game as he normally does when he has our games" in his interview after the game.
Just got a decision wrong today, as human beings are liable to do.