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But if you hand people a spade their instinct may be to tonk you over the head with it. Personally I would keep digging, then initiate a distraction by turning it into a self-effacing joke. I have my Pringles ready now....
This is an interesting exchange. I will hold my hand up as an old man and admit I have been caught out wandering into lazy stereotype territory. The first instinct is to do as TugWilson has done and, having had no malice aforethought, get all shirty. I have done it. But then....you have to train...