Thank you for that. I know your posts and respect your perspectives. My current position is indeed to hold back for bail outs till, he 'settles'. His car insurance is a bit high after he was banned for a year, for example :ffsparr:
You are right of course. The little bugger has dual citizenship...
I was given three grand to help me with my deposit on a 57K mortgage by the olds. I was grateful. These days with properties here starting around 250K, I'd need to front my lad about 175K because he has no savings and a crap income. And after that there is a real risk he won't be able to keep up...
A case close to my heart....musing on spaffing some of my pension pot. But....he's not showing any great interest....computer games, mates.......decided to be a musician at age 19 (dropped out of school)...now working for peanuts for a law firm, age 33...tricky. Meanwhile I have a new family...