NSC is a place to feel comfortable sharing stuff, you will always get people who don't 'read the room'. In this case Spence was one, but @happypig was trying to help. Nuances are hard to pick up in 'text' & not everyone goes through all the posts in detail. People will only say things in a...
In the last week I have said no to 2 different sets of people regarding 'their' Xmas plans. This has led to 2 people being 'disappointed' (they understand but I feel I may regret saying no) and 1 being thoroughly p**sed off that I haven't done what they demanded, (even though I said I couldn't)...