No the point was you can't be offended as a group unless the offence relates to the characteristics of the group as a whole - and you can't really be offended by proxy, being offended on behalf of all of the gay people that weren't present.
I think in this case the people most upset are the ones who like to be offended when it suits them
If opposition fans ask if my boyfriend knows I'm here when I don't have one I'm as offended as they are if I ask the whereabouts of their fathers.
Even if I was gay I don't think I would be...
I wish people would grow up, you can't call someone a w****r etc and not expect some abuse back and crying to the police to get a player done is out of order too.
If this goes on eventually there will be no banter, chants or singing of any kind. I don't think that anyone should be able to...