One of my nephews is a ladies hairdresser and is like the proverbial nine bob note and as such does not flaunt his sexuality neither does he hide it and always has an an answer when somebody tries to take the pee and homophobic comments do not offend him at all.
So if he did what is the big deal why cant people just move on and ignore it. Why should anybody be offended by a gesture? What was the old saying at junior school, Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me.