I think I get the point you're making but being inclusive and respectful of people's choices doesn't preclude you from having an opinion on it. Icy (and others in this thread that have done so) is perfectly within their rights to express that they don't like tattoos.
The difference, for me...
Oh yeah the wrist sucks. Elbow isn't much fun either.
Ribs I've considered. I quite like the trend (probably old trend by now) American college students had of getting the outline of their home state tattooed on their ribs. I thought about getting the outline of Sussex done, which would double...
I had no idea what I wanted for my first one but I knew I wanted one. I booked the appointment and then that spurred me to figure out what it was I wanted.
That one's long been covered up now though in service of a full sleeve.