I can see that, though it wasn't my intended point.
I just don't think the women should be doing the proposing. It's the man's job.
And I'm a leftie, feminist, snowflake, remoaner, liberal millenial.
Weird one.
I don't think it's manly or sexist or whatever but equally I'd be a bit put out if I was proposed to rather than being down on bended knee myself.