Cheers Weststander, been around NSC long enough to know there'll always be someone who'll criticise. And to be fair, I probably should have checked what I'd written before I posted :shrug:
I've been to see him a couple of times now and the advice from this thread has really helped. The key was not to be frightened of what to say (or bring) - I was there for a couple of hours along with lots of his family and friends. We talked and there were tears and sadness but also normal chat...
Thanks everyone - I really appreciate it and I will do what's been advised. I've been around to see him. Lots of family and friends there and he will definitely be supported. Just so awfully sad. The most poignant was talking to his dad who said "it's so wonderful when you see your child be...
Hi everyone,
Time to ask the collective wisdom of NSC for some advice. A friend of mine's wife died last night. Their son plays in the same football team and goes to the same school as my son. I obviously want to help - and the club will too - but I really don't know where to start when...