Firstly, I'm genuinely sorry to read this post and for your loss and experience, just as I am for anyone else on the thread who's going through this or has family who are. My original post wasn't intended to demean your fight or experience, any of you.
However, I'm back because there really is...
Exactly this (plus he’s got no money worries so no additional stress making him more ill, which is what’s happening to so many working class people).
I’ll leave it there. Either you get it or you don’t.