I can say 'f**k off' in a variety of ways. It is exceptionally rare that I'll 'mean it' in a nasty way but people would know the difference. The point is he should be setting an example to the kids that were kicking the ball around the park this morning & not gob off to the ref. Doesn't matter...
I haven't seen a replay, I only saw what was on the screen at the time. In my unbiased opinion he should've just shut up. He knows better than that. We can't all sit here on our keyboards saying how sad it is that no one wants to ref kids football matches & then say how out of order it was that...